Brandon1504
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This is a little long, but I had no other way of explaining it, and no other place to put it on that could possibly shed some light on it all...
I met a girl around a year ago at a new years party who my best friend was interested in; lets call her girl A. I didn't really think much of it.
But apparently, she fell in love with me at first sight, as I recently found out. We talked quite a bit after we met, online and stuff, as she lives far away, and about three months ago she admitted to being heavily in love with me. Once again, I didn't think much of it.
She then got a boyfriend and it all kind of ended.
I recently have been speaking to girl A quite a bit and have grown rather fond of her, and shes revealed that she is still madly in love with me, which, yes is a bit bizarre considering she has a boyfriend.
Now as a normal person, I have quite a few girls that I am attracted to, especially one girl, lets call her girl B, and before girl A admitted to still being in love with me, I was up for maybe getting to know her better and making something of it. However, now, i just feel guilty about it, as though I am hurting girl A's feelings and not being respectful.
But then I am posed with the dilemma of whether I will ever really get together with girl A? I live around 5 hours by train away from her, have met her two of three times, and she has a boyfriend, yet I cannot stop thinking about her. It feels a bit wrong.
Basically, I am very confused. And I don't know what to say to her (girl A), or what to do. I just wanna make sense of it all really.
Any help?
Thanks.
Brandon.
I met a girl around a year ago at a new years party who my best friend was interested in; lets call her girl A. I didn't really think much of it.
But apparently, she fell in love with me at first sight, as I recently found out. We talked quite a bit after we met, online and stuff, as she lives far away, and about three months ago she admitted to being heavily in love with me. Once again, I didn't think much of it.
She then got a boyfriend and it all kind of ended.
I recently have been speaking to girl A quite a bit and have grown rather fond of her, and shes revealed that she is still madly in love with me, which, yes is a bit bizarre considering she has a boyfriend.
Now as a normal person, I have quite a few girls that I am attracted to, especially one girl, lets call her girl B, and before girl A admitted to still being in love with me, I was up for maybe getting to know her better and making something of it. However, now, i just feel guilty about it, as though I am hurting girl A's feelings and not being respectful.
But then I am posed with the dilemma of whether I will ever really get together with girl A? I live around 5 hours by train away from her, have met her two of three times, and she has a boyfriend, yet I cannot stop thinking about her. It feels a bit wrong.
Basically, I am very confused. And I don't know what to say to her (girl A), or what to do. I just wanna make sense of it all really.
Any help?
Thanks.
Brandon.