Im sick of being one of the boys, how can i change my image?

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yonica

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I'm 14 and i'm always getting treated like a boy. I'm really not a tomboy, im not Girl but i still like clothes and makeup and stuff. It seems like any time im around a guy friend they think they can rough/wrestle around with me, and joke with me, and pick on me like one of the guys. I mean im not sensitive but im sick of it, whatever happened to not hitting girls! The problem is it's just me, they don't treat any of the other girls like this. I guess im a little wild and crazy at times but i don't feel like im giving them signs that im okay with being treated like this. i don't even have many guy friends, its really any guy i meet. Should i start dressing differently, taking differently, i really don't know what to do at this point. I've tried changing, being outgoing, being shy, nothing works. How can i change my "boy" image?
I really do act like a girl though! i wear skirts, and pink, i just don't talk about gossip and clothes and stuff like that a lot. Is that the problem?
 
you really can't.
if you don't like it talk to em about it
and btw, if your girly, like you say you are..
they probably are just attracted to you and wana fumble around with you.
guys like tackling things they like.
 
maybe its a vibe, try being more feminine around them

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let them know you don't appreciate being treated like a guy. dress Girlier and act like a girl :D
 
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