Im scared to have sex...?

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Ok I haven't had sex since I was 18, Im almost 21 now. And before that I didn't have sex since I was 15. I have some MAJOR psychological issues with sex, like my 6 incher isnt big enough, that I will bust way too soon and the girl will laugh with her friends about me behind my back, that Im not a "man" because Im only 5 foot 8 with tiny hands and than I cant get it up, etc etc... And not having sex is really kind of bringing me down; I remember when I was 14-15 and having sex all the time I always felt good. It was awesome, but now I'm too scared because last time I tried, a few months ago, I only got half an erection and busted in like 20 seconds and she felt NOTHING. What can I do?
 
sex will come naturally when given time , if it is to be , hey get married and there wont be a problem
 
Maybe the fact that you were having sex when you were only 14/15 and probably too young psychologically, has thrown you off even 6 years later. If you have psych issues you need to get them resolved.
Remember.... it's not the size of the wand that matters, but the magic in it. I'm an old fashioned sort of guy. I think marriage is the best alternative but to each his own. You may have been having issues with the last person because you were not truly attracted to her either emotionally or physically, Or you could have had low blood sugar, or stressed out or just tired...there's a million valid reasons why that would have happened. They did a study once...they found that 97% of the men asked had suffered from that same malady at least once. The other 3% were liars. Give yourself a break, kid. Next time... should you choose to accept this assignment, get some rest and drink some orange juice ahead of time...
 
Not having sex is bringing you down? Pal, U need to start finding more important things to do with your time. There is NEVER any guarantee that you're going to find happiness and personal satisfaction in sex. Why put more emphasis into it than other things in this world that could use your attention?
 
You can try to masterbate before you have sex so you last. Also sex is an activity. Penetration is one of the activities. You can do a million other things to make her get something out of it. Dont be fooled most men have an orgasm in about 5 minutes. And most men are smallerthan 6"
 
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