im ranting again after i asked advice yesterday!!!!?

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i asked advice yesterday got some answers but still not happy basicly my 5 yr old daughter has 3 friends on the same estate as us she also goes 2 school with them on 2 occasions they have all gone in to play and slammed the door in her face .i thought knowing she can be a little devil that she could have said /done something to provoke this .i was fuming but thought it was best left alone,then on the way home from school today they were fine and getting along great she shared her sweets with them and everything was hunkydory,we all live in the same street and my daughter and the other kids stayed outside for a while.knowing what has been going on i kept an eye out of the window just to see what would happen.and would you believe it they spat in her face and shut the door in her face yet again while they went in to play.my daughter is heartbroken she is sobbing her heart out.im livid once again i know she said nothing /did nothing to deserve this.help what shall i do and dont say invite
them around for tea im sure they will be friends again as if i did i think i would murder them for what they are doing.im sick to the back teeth of it im so angry i could go out and spit in their faces.i need to know what i should do as this is getting out of control.thankyou to all that help.xx
i will add these kids are 1 girl aged 7 1boy aged 6 and a boy aged 7.
and also i think my punctuation or spelling has nothing to do with this problem.(probably some know it all with no kids)read the answers!!!!
 
I would tell their parents this is going on.....keep away 1 day or 2 then see if it stil happens. If it happens again, she's not playing with any of those kids ever.
 
Have you spoke to their parents about them spitting in her face? That is what I would do.Then if it happens again i wouldnt let them play with her anymore.She doesnt deserve to be treated like that, no little girl does.
 
Go let the parents know what their children have been doing and do not allow those children around until they apologize to your daughter in front of you. Even then, still keep an eye on things and if it happens again, don't allow them near your daughter.
 
PLEASE DON'T SEND HER OUT AGAIN TO PLAY WITH THEM.
SHES ONLY 5 AND SHOULD BE SUPERVISED BY YOU AT ALL TIMES.
WHEN MINE WERE LITTLE I WOULD TAKE THEM TO THE PARK EVERYDAY,EVEN IN THE RAIN IN THERE WELLIES THEY LOVED TO SPEND TIME SPLASHING AROUND IN THE WATER.LET HER MAKE FRIENDS IN THE PARK WHERE ALL THE PARENTS SUPERVISE THERE CHILDREN. ALSO TELL THE SCHOOL.
 
I answered you yesterday but if violence is now on the agenda I would stop her going out to play with them and also ask the school to keep their eye on them incase it is also happening there. Don't know about her school but my kids school policy is that they can't stop anyone playing with anyone else it is up to you to tell your child to stay away from them.
 
HI I all depends on how you feel about confrontation, as you can always got round to there parents house and tell them that they spat in your daughters face right in front of you and its not on ? but then all that will do is probably end up in a slanging match and then you will have neightbours that could make your life hell.

or what I would do is if I saw that happen to my little girl I would be out of the door and over to the other girls and shout at them tell them you saw anything and tell them to stay away from your daughter. If there parents come round because of you shouting at there girls then just tell them it has happend on more than on occasion and you are sick of it and shut the door. That is that,

I would deffinalty not invite them round to tea, or even encourage them to get on with my daughter, they are bullies and will be and your daughter doesnt need to grow up with people like them, They use her for her sweets and then dont want to bother with her. This is beyond it being kids being kids. If you dont stop it now you daughter may of not been too affected by it now but when she gets older it might have mental effects on here.

For got sake they are only 5 years old and shouldnt be treating a person this way, the spoilt brat.
 
Id talk to the other girls parents and see if they behave like this at home, its a form of bullying in my eyes and needs nipping in the bud asap. Have you spoken to the teacher at school to see how the other girls are in the classroom towards your daughter? also have you spoken to your health visitor as they might have come across this before?

Good Luck and sorry i cant offer anymore advice
 
Um go talk to the kids parents and let them know whats going on. Next time they come to your house, tell them you thought it was rude and angry and how would they like it if your daughter or anyone else did that to them. Although i really think you need to talk to their parents to see a change in them! Also I don't know do you give them a ride home from school? If so stop doing it! Also try to find your daughter some friends to play with ..set up play dates, so if those girls what to pick with
her like that she actually has friends!

EDIT: I'd also sit her out in the front yard with something real fun to do by herself, when they are out there.
 
You Could try talking to the parents, but chances are, that they have learned their behavior from somewhere(probably the parents, or just not being disciplined.

If I was you, I would just tell my daughter that she shouldn't play with them. They sound like mean little kids and that they don't deserve her as a friend. You could try getting her involved in gymnastics or swimming, so that she can make different friends. Just because you live on the same street does not mean she has to be friends with bullies!
 
I would of went outside and said something to the kids and then talk to their parents about it. They spit in her face? I would of went off!!!!
You need to tell your daughter that these little girls are not her friends and that she has to stand up for herself. If she's not ready to do that the only thing you can do is tell her that she can't play with them anymore. You need to tell their parents because YOU saw it with your own eyes so it's not a "he said she said" "kids will be kids" type of thing

I know some people might not agree but I would tell my daughter that the next time they spit, hit, or kick her to do it right back to them. An eye for an eye.
 
I agree with 'the successor'...You should tell their parents and see what they do about it. I would also advise your daughter to try and makes some new friends no matter how hard it might seem for her. I really hope it gets sorted and everything goes alright for your daughter.
 
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