Im pregnant and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me as soon as i gave him the...

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Beck

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...news. Will he look for me? we had been together for 3 years and he decided to break up with me because of the pregnancy. I told him that was not a reason to break up and after our last conversation he disappeared. I have tried to come in touch with him to tell him about the baby's heartbeat, ultrasound,etc. but he only gets mad. Is better if i ignored him to show him we don't need him? will he try to come back to know whats going on if he does not hear from me? ?
 
Awww sweetie Im so sorry. I am in the same situation but I had to leave my Baby father. He was abusive and now he is fighting his way back in. Leave him alone. You all both had sex and for him to leave when you got pregnant is ridiculous and he is no real man at all. Find you someone who will except you and these babies and move on. He'll be furious to find out a man better then him is helping you with your baby and you all are a happy family. Keep in contact.
 
No, he will not come back and it sounds like he wants nothing to do with the child. I can understand where he is coming from. He does not want the responsibility or the financial burden. Why not just get an abortion and wait until you are with someone that wants a family? It will be so much easier on you.
 
you don't need him obviously he isn't any good for you and your unborn child.Anyone that can walk away from some one that is carrying their child,and doesn't offer to help in no way possible needs to be put away.I know that you might still have feelings for this guy,i mean you was in a relationship for 3 years.But think about yourself and your child,he doesn't love you enough to say baby im going be here for every step of the way.Instead he disappeared like a ghost.At this point you have to be strong for you and your child,stop worrying about someone that isn't worrying about you.You need to be focus on this baby of yours,even though he might not want it, Its still YOURS.You have to give this baby twice the love of 2 parents.I really hope he realize how dumb he's acting,and try to be a farther to this baby.But if not you still continue to take care your baby like you plan to.I hope you find a man that's good enough to love you and your baby.Stay strong.
 
File for child support so that he can take care of his share of the responsibility since it is his child and move on he isn't man enough to stick around when times get hard then he's not worth the trouble.

Just don't let him walk away without being a father or contributing for the child!!!
 
Im really sorry to tell you, he is not a responsible guy and he will not try to come back to you. The moment you broke the news to him he wanted to break up with you without even thinking of taking responsible for the baby. You have been played.
 
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