I'm planning on losing my virginity to my boyfriend...?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and we're both 17. We love each other so much. We plan on having sex soon. It's both of our first times and we're getting condoms. I'm just nervous about how it will go. Any advice or tips? Or things I should expect...
 
get on birth control as a backup for the condom,trust me.other than that, relax and enjoy! ;]
 
just make sure you're comfortable with each other, as you're both virgins some parts may go wrong! :) Its pretty natural though don't worry about a thing......
 
Use lots and lots of lube. It is often hard to keep yourself moist down there the first time because you aren't used to the way it feels, and you will probably be nervous. It will also make it hurt waaaay less.That is the #1 thing I wish someone would have told me.It will probably hurt a little, but it really isn't as bad as everyone says. Don't focus on the fear of pain, focus on your love.Go slow. Do lots of foreplay and really enjoy it. Don't feel bad if you don't orgasm, and don't feel bad if he doesn't orgasm, or orgasms too soon, or loses his erection. All these things can happen because of nerves and it is completely normal.If you get halfway through and you don't want to do it anymore because it is uncomfortable or whatever, or if he needs to stop for whatever reason, it is okay. Don't be afraid to speak up.After I lost my virginity I was sore (but I didn't bleed at all) I wanted to take a shower so he went with me. He just held me in the shower and it was really nice.
 
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well, believe it or not, you don't really know what love is yet, but if you do share a strong connection and you're both ready don't try to stress it. let things moment flow. definitely expect an awkward moment or two but nothing a little humor can't fix.
 
its porbly gona hurt... just be warned of that.but other then that make sure ur comfertable with eachother. and conversate.
 
Pay attention for if the condom breaks. Some males won't have the willpower to stop and you may need to stop him to replace the condom.He may not have the strength yet to thrust hard for very long, and he may tire easily. Be understanding if he needs to change positions often.Keep your hair out of the way so that he doesn't pull it. That will turn both of you off.
 
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