I'm not sure what to do. My fiance thinks I'm a hypocondriac and complains...

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...that everything is always about me? First of all I had cervical cancer, I have proof and he went to the doctors with me. Then I was pregnant and had a the baby. And I got 2 migraine headaches b/c I forgot to refill my prescriptions. And then got bit by a spider and had to have antibiotics and oh yesterday my alergies made me sneeze a few times. This all happend in 3 years.

Cancer, pregnancy and birth, Spider bite and sneezing. Does this make me a hypocondriac? I don't hardly go to the doctor I hate it. He of course is the "typical man" who never goes to the doc even when he needs to.

What do I do? The Doc told me that if I waited one more day they would have had to put me in the hospital for 24 hours to do antibiotics for that spider bite. My whole leg, ankle and foot were swollen red and hot. He can see all these things. There is nothing I can do about it. What can I do to make him realize I don't want people "doting" over me and I don't need it. I am not making this stuff up. He could see the leg thing and the docs were telling him about the cancer. What do I do?
 
It doesn't make you a hypochondriac, but at the same all of this crap keeps happening to you kind of would make me wonder what is it this time?
 
Call OFF the wedding! He's to immature for you to go ahead and marry him! WHY would you want to be with him when he's so self centered and immature? So what you love him, you can love a guy that is mature and actually CARES about you! You don't stay and suffer in this one sided relationship!
 
Some people are luckier then others health wise. It's the way they deal with their 'ordeal' that has a lot of impact on their partners.

I'm sorry you had cancer, but I understand it's past tense and you recovered from that. Pregnancy and getting babies are perfectly normal things to happen in a woman's life. Good you got AB against that spider bite, take a little rest and you'll be fine. The migraine headaches seem to be recurring, yes they suck I know but you forgot your medication and it's not like he can do anything to prevent that.

Oh now you sneezed a few times as well yesterday. Oh my gosh. Sorry but I feel you are being a little drama queen collecting medical incidents. If I were your partner I'd probably feel the same.
 
Well ask him what he would do if he had cancer, or would a bite from a spider that caused this response. If he can't answer, then tell him to shut up and think about saying the things he does. You might want to consider what your life will be like with him, and make a decision weather to be with him or not. He sounds very critical of everything.
 
...and what's wrong with being a hypochondriac? Sounds liek your fiance is jealous of all the super-duper attention you get, gf! Ask your fiance if he's a member of the "gay pink-hating society?"
 
Go to the freakin doctor!! Who cares what he says, hello do you want to spend 24 hours in the hospital??



My cousin is this way, I always tease her that she's a hypochondriac, but I really think she is. Anything anyone talks about or she sees on T.V all of a sudden she thinks she has it. I tell her they have her reserved parking at the ER and they know her by name!! But you don't sound anything like her. Like all of the above would happen in one month for her!
 
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