because I'm afraid it'll hurt. I'm comfortable with my body, and I'm not going to do it with someone who doesn't care about me, but I am afraid that it'll be excruciatingly painful. I can't even use a tampon because it's really difficult to get it in comfortably. I'm not planning on doing it any time in the near future (I'm not in a relationship or anything) but I still am wondering how I can make it hurt less for when I do. Does anyone have any advice?