hey,
i have asked this question before as well from u all n most of the frnds gave me the best answer they could give me but all those suggestions didnt suit my situation as i have tried everything. I have been in a relationship with a guy since 2 years and we were very happy initially. but since few months i have been noticing a change in him as if he is ignoring me. He behaves very childish sometimes and is unaware of my needs and my care mostly. like wenever he wants to spend some time with me, i spend as much as i can. i have given him many gifts as well during our relationship but he has never given me anything nor he behaves maturely on most of the situation.
I have loved him alot and i cant live without him. also he has never cheated me. But his nature is very difficult and i really feel hurt n cry sometimes wen i get tortured by him. I do evrything for him. I ask him the reason why he has changed but he always say that he's the same and he loves me alot. But he has started 2 behave very strangely with me with the passage of time. Infact i had tried everything i could and i can, 2 know da reason why he's behaving harshly with me. When it comes 2 sex or some romance time, i have noticed that whenever he's interested he makes very good love with me. but since few days im noticing that im not getting sexually or mentally relaxed with him in bed either. I had tried seeking help from al his frnds and even my best frnd has talked wd him n had tried 2 know the reason but he does what he wants n he doesnt listen 2 anybody. ON few occasions he behaves very immaturely like a child though he's 22. i have never stopped loving him since i had begun 2 love him. I realise i had done few mistakes on my behalf as well but after i had realised i had asked forgiveness from him but he has not changed anything in his nature 4 me even then. We (me, his frnd and my frnd) had tried 2 make him understand this fact that if he's no more interested in me, then he shud quit with me but he cant live without me either.
on the other hand, its me who calls him or texts him too much because i belong 2 a broken family n i need him da most. Without him, my day seems dull n my body seems lifeless.. He has got alot of qualities within him as well but he behaves vry immaturely n harshly wd me. Sometimes weneva i call him , he cancels my call n texts me 'msg me'..
i have started feeling very depressed and lonely now. i just wish i could die.
Kindly help me how to deal with him as i dont want to leave him coz i love him alot. P.S im an eastern girl. in east one has to carry on with the relation as grace.
i have asked this question before as well from u all n most of the frnds gave me the best answer they could give me but all those suggestions didnt suit my situation as i have tried everything. I have been in a relationship with a guy since 2 years and we were very happy initially. but since few months i have been noticing a change in him as if he is ignoring me. He behaves very childish sometimes and is unaware of my needs and my care mostly. like wenever he wants to spend some time with me, i spend as much as i can. i have given him many gifts as well during our relationship but he has never given me anything nor he behaves maturely on most of the situation.
I have loved him alot and i cant live without him. also he has never cheated me. But his nature is very difficult and i really feel hurt n cry sometimes wen i get tortured by him. I do evrything for him. I ask him the reason why he has changed but he always say that he's the same and he loves me alot. But he has started 2 behave very strangely with me with the passage of time. Infact i had tried everything i could and i can, 2 know da reason why he's behaving harshly with me. When it comes 2 sex or some romance time, i have noticed that whenever he's interested he makes very good love with me. but since few days im noticing that im not getting sexually or mentally relaxed with him in bed either. I had tried seeking help from al his frnds and even my best frnd has talked wd him n had tried 2 know the reason but he does what he wants n he doesnt listen 2 anybody. ON few occasions he behaves very immaturely like a child though he's 22. i have never stopped loving him since i had begun 2 love him. I realise i had done few mistakes on my behalf as well but after i had realised i had asked forgiveness from him but he has not changed anything in his nature 4 me even then. We (me, his frnd and my frnd) had tried 2 make him understand this fact that if he's no more interested in me, then he shud quit with me but he cant live without me either.
on the other hand, its me who calls him or texts him too much because i belong 2 a broken family n i need him da most. Without him, my day seems dull n my body seems lifeless.. He has got alot of qualities within him as well but he behaves vry immaturely n harshly wd me. Sometimes weneva i call him , he cancels my call n texts me 'msg me'..
i have started feeling very depressed and lonely now. i just wish i could die.
Kindly help me how to deal with him as i dont want to leave him coz i love him alot. P.S im an eastern girl. in east one has to carry on with the relation as grace.