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kylie0731
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I'm having a dilemma and I would like some opinions. I'm going to be having a party..and it's a theme party. (ABC) which means "Anything But Clothes". Basically everyone has to find something to cover their body with other than clothing. It's creative, different, & fun. I know my question looks long, but please help!
One I can't decide what day I should have it and here are the reasons why:
My whole life my sister has been the center of attention out of the two of us. It makes me feel like an awful person for talking like this, but for once I would like to be that person, especially since I came up with BOTH the idea to have this party, along with the theme and for once I would like to just be recognized as that person.
My sister won't be here one of the weekends I'm trying to decide to have this. Now the issues are: that if my sis is here & comes to the party she will bring more people which is great for a theme like this..BUT she will again recieve all the attention and will always be "better" than me..whether it's because of her outfit..of anything.
The other issues are that if I have this party when she is not available..there will be less people, which isn't as fun. However, I will atleast feel a little more wanted at the party and it will also give more notice to others & more time to come up with ideas for their outfits, which will make it more fun to see who comes up with what. Why this is, is because it's a week later.
The party will either be next week, or the week after.
I need help?! What should I do? I hate calling my sister out like this..I love her..but for once..I just want to be that person. No rude answers please.
what would you do??
One I can't decide what day I should have it and here are the reasons why:
My whole life my sister has been the center of attention out of the two of us. It makes me feel like an awful person for talking like this, but for once I would like to be that person, especially since I came up with BOTH the idea to have this party, along with the theme and for once I would like to just be recognized as that person.
My sister won't be here one of the weekends I'm trying to decide to have this. Now the issues are: that if my sis is here & comes to the party she will bring more people which is great for a theme like this..BUT she will again recieve all the attention and will always be "better" than me..whether it's because of her outfit..of anything.
The other issues are that if I have this party when she is not available..there will be less people, which isn't as fun. However, I will atleast feel a little more wanted at the party and it will also give more notice to others & more time to come up with ideas for their outfits, which will make it more fun to see who comes up with what. Why this is, is because it's a week later.
The party will either be next week, or the week after.
I need help?! What should I do? I hate calling my sister out like this..I love her..but for once..I just want to be that person. No rude answers please.
what would you do??