should I not bother? My boyfriend is great. We've been together 3 years now and we're seniors in college. My only issue is he has NO SAVINGS. I get it, in high school he had a job and spent it on things he wanted. But now that we're about to graduate, it makes me nervous. I want a future with him. But I don't want him to be financially unstable (kind of like his father). He's a finalist in a competition and has the chance to win some nice cash. I've tried to talk to him about cutting it up into percentiles, like 10% to keep now and have fun with, rent, savings, and even something he can't touch for at least a few years. Am I out of line? I care about him and I don't want money to get in our way. I consider myself fortunate that I have a savings account and steady jobs. But I don't want it to always be this way, me with all the savings and him kind of just... following along. He hasn't paid for a single internet bill all semester. And he uses it just as much as I do. But I didn't want to get mad since he didn't even have his rent paid off. Maybe I am overreacing and he'd be fine once he actually did more than break even with money. But maybe I have a hunch and should stick with it. I just don't want to come off as a control freak. And I really don't want to lose him. How can I help him get better habits without controlling his income?!