So I've told my four closest friends I'm gay. I am 100% positive I have their complete, unwavering support... nothing will change between us. My best friend has offered me a place to stay with him and his girlfriend after I get out of college. I was afraid he was going to drop me, and his reaction was beyond anything I could have anticipated.
Now that I have this solid foundation.... I don't feel any compelling reason to hide any longer. Not everyone will take it well. In fact, I could give you names of people who will not react well at all, and this will cause a giant rift with... But right now... I just don't care...
So what do I do? Am I being completely blinded by euphoria? is this too rash? is it safe enough to just go for it? Should I tell anyone else personally before everyone knows? Should I wait a bit longer until everyone knows (my friends have known about a month now...)? haha you don't have to answer all of that, but what would you recommend?
I not looking for a reaction.
I'm tired of 'explaining' why I don't have a girlfriend, having nothing to say in conversations on commonly accepted attractive women, telling people I'm not gay, ect... I don't want it to be a big deal, I'm just sick of doing the opposite.
And now that I know I'll still have several of the most important people by my side... there doesn't seem to be any point in doing the opposite...
Now that I have this solid foundation.... I don't feel any compelling reason to hide any longer. Not everyone will take it well. In fact, I could give you names of people who will not react well at all, and this will cause a giant rift with... But right now... I just don't care...
So what do I do? Am I being completely blinded by euphoria? is this too rash? is it safe enough to just go for it? Should I tell anyone else personally before everyone knows? Should I wait a bit longer until everyone knows (my friends have known about a month now...)? haha you don't have to answer all of that, but what would you recommend?
I not looking for a reaction.
I'm tired of 'explaining' why I don't have a girlfriend, having nothing to say in conversations on commonly accepted attractive women, telling people I'm not gay, ect... I don't want it to be a big deal, I'm just sick of doing the opposite.
And now that I know I'll still have several of the most important people by my side... there doesn't seem to be any point in doing the opposite...