I'm everything she's looking for . . but . . help!!! (Re-ask with more information)?

Kimball

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There's this girl i've been into for a while now. It's OBVIOUS the attraction between us but she's a bit of a free spirit. Doesn't want to be tied down. At least, that's what she tells me.

There's this Italian, a good friend of hers, Josh, that she's been into for a while. They like each other, but i think the both of them know that a relationship wouldn't work. She's determined to wait it out for him though. And, while I'll admit that his chances are a bit better than mine, EVERYONE know's i'm the better choice here. Her friends have gone as far as to tell her that she should focus on me instead of other guys.

She's into grunge, rocker type dudes. I'm more of the skater, moto-x kinda guy. Clean cut. A bit of a social badass, (just wild and crazy, nothing serious like smoking weed and excessive drinking) and a bit reckless when i wanna be.

I'm trying my hardest to get past this thick wall she's set up between us. She told me once before that she didn't want to fall for me, mainly because she was afraid. Yet she seems willing to fall for the guy that would, without a doubt, break her heart.

So what do i do? She want's to focus on a friendship, which would be fine except that we've already had sex and on top of that established this crazy connection with each other. So that would be torture to me. I'm not quite willing to give this us, because i see an opening here. As long as it's still there i'm still willing to give this a shot. Just need some help.

last night i went out on a date with another girl. I know this is playing dirty but I let bree know (casually) what was going on, asking stuff like where should we go. Last night during the date, when my date went to the bathroom, i texted the girl, telling her the score of the game that we were watching. She replyed, how's the date going, to which i replied it's going well. She asked if i was into this girl, and i told her i wasn't sure. She seemed to . . idk. want me to be with this girl, or at least reeeallly wanna find out how i feel about her. If that helps anything . . . I commented to her that she seems to want this more than i did, she said she just wants me happy. what did all that mean? She seemed awfully interested.
 
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