O boy,
Before i get into the nitty gritty i want to clarify that this is something that has never ever happened to me before.
Last night I attended my first party at college. It was my hope to just meet some new people, and have a good time, nothing special. Well skipping along a bit the night ended up with me and a girl slipping into her room and we spent the night together. Both of us were drunk, not passed the point of no return but defiantly drunk. I do want to clarify that there was no full on sex, a lot of kissing and touching, but there was no penetration but I made sure to put on a condom just in case.
Now where the confusion begins. I have never been in a relationship let along in bed alone with a girl (even though im 21, she was 20), and Im not sure where to go from here. She does not have a cell phone but I gave her my number. Im also only like a 2 minute walk from her place, but she does have 5 other girls in her suite. I really would like to talk to her again but im not sure on how to initiate it, or because she has my phone # to just wait for her for a day or 2 before I do anything.
I should also say i feel like an asshole for not controlling myself, i knew that both of us were drunk and i knew we should probably stop and I should have gone home but I couldn't pull myself away. Im just hoping she doesn't think i took advantage of her for my own pleasure...
Iono i just have no one to talk to about this kind of stuff and am hoping that I can get some good advice on what to do next.
Thank you in advance.
Before i get into the nitty gritty i want to clarify that this is something that has never ever happened to me before.
Last night I attended my first party at college. It was my hope to just meet some new people, and have a good time, nothing special. Well skipping along a bit the night ended up with me and a girl slipping into her room and we spent the night together. Both of us were drunk, not passed the point of no return but defiantly drunk. I do want to clarify that there was no full on sex, a lot of kissing and touching, but there was no penetration but I made sure to put on a condom just in case.
Now where the confusion begins. I have never been in a relationship let along in bed alone with a girl (even though im 21, she was 20), and Im not sure where to go from here. She does not have a cell phone but I gave her my number. Im also only like a 2 minute walk from her place, but she does have 5 other girls in her suite. I really would like to talk to her again but im not sure on how to initiate it, or because she has my phone # to just wait for her for a day or 2 before I do anything.
I should also say i feel like an asshole for not controlling myself, i knew that both of us were drunk and i knew we should probably stop and I should have gone home but I couldn't pull myself away. Im just hoping she doesn't think i took advantage of her for my own pleasure...
Iono i just have no one to talk to about this kind of stuff and am hoping that I can get some good advice on what to do next.
Thank you in advance.