im a male who hates sex, what do i do?

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first im 16 years young and a male. I hate sex and yes hate is a strong word but its true. when i hear sex noises in real life from two ppl i get a mad feeling inside. its probably because i dont understand it and feel different then they do. i have no turn ons at all i dont even get what that means really because it never happened to me. im thinking how is this going to affect my future? because i can still fall in love with someone so im pretty sure ill get married one day but i dont know how they will feel about this. am i like the only guy ever on earth to not like sex? whats the name for this? what should i do?

ps: the thought of sex gets me really MAD
 
Just like Sean said, you do have somewhat of a gift. Nowadays sex can lead to more negatives than positive, and a sexless relationship can be a very strong relationship. Someone will fall in love with you for what you truly are, and not to just get some action.

The sad part is that gays are a minority, so imagine finding someone gay that feels the same way.
There are some communities out there to help you deal with it, and also "asexual" personals sites.

Edit: I don't 100% believe that you are "Asexual," because asexuals don't HATE sex. They do engage in sex, but just to please their partners. They just have no desire for it.
 
This is called lack of sex drive. Several physiological and psychological disorders can cause this. You should see a doctor.

On the other hand, you could hate sex because you are traumatized from some sort of sexual abuse as a child. In that case, it would be Post Traumatic Stress Disorder that you have. Either way: see a doctor and talk about it.
 
Id say;

am i like the only guy ever on earth to not like sex? --YES
what should i do?-- Watch a hell of a lot of porn and practice/buy toys for woman you like
whats the name for this?-- Would say gay, but even they have sex. Plus you get mad so I dont think its gay
sure ill get married one day-- Wife may need to go to someone else for pleasure? Cheating? *Sadface*

I'd stick with watching porn and practicing. Seriously.
 
Peacefully salute

You want my advice as a friend.
You want something like no one told you before as noble feelings.

Save your self to be as you are & know first before men love women for sex as lots of people do that women is soft, weak pretty & every thing beautiful want to be saved by men.
So god never created all things with the full perfect characters.
Women & men every one owns his characteristics that make the other attracted to, not only sex.
I want you to feel that all your friends from girls around you as your sisters till you feel the true love.
Don't mind with that foolishness as boy & girl friends as the two look for sex.
Only pure friendship between man & woman or we will be like dogs & animals every one do sex with any one.

That is better choice as my point of view till you mind the right relation as marriage before sex.
& god knows the right way.

Thanks
Mohab Muhammad
 
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