I'm 20 and my husband is 24. He says that he is bisexual but usually avoids...

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...sex with me. What should I do? I'm 20 and my husband is 24. He says that he is bisexual but usually avoids sex with me. What should I do?
 
leave him.. fast!!! hes gay an hes cheating on u with another guy... get rid of him b4 he gives u some disease...
 
Since he claims to be bisexual you should ask if that has something to do with his lack of interest. But it could be a myriad of other things--like feeling confined in a marriage or stress.

Just because somebody's bisexual doesn't mean they're going to cheat on you. Just like how a fair number of heterosexuals don't cheat on their partners. Glad to see the homophobia is alive and well though.

Talk with your husband, see about counseling if that doesn't work. Best of luck!
 
Why did you marry him. Was it because he was unobtainable ask yourself some questions and then talk to your hubby about the sex thing if it bothers you. If it does not become resolved then think about letting him go. Best Wishes
 
You should accept him for who he is. As long as he isn't gay, then everything should be fine, right? I mean sure, I guess you could say that it's a big thing to go through, but as long as he still loves you then everything should be okay. Sex isn't something that is REQUIRED in a marriage, it's trust. So just be lucky that he told you. :)
 
He is probably gay, and just starting to realize that he's not bi as he thought. Being married probably brought it out. He needs counseling, and you need to take a good hard look at your marriage.
 
OKAY.

He trusted you enough to tell you. Be blessed with that. Accept him for who he is BUT lay down guide lines for your relationship ! Go to him. Stand up and BE A WOMAN. Be stern and let him know that you will not stand for sex avoidance (from him) and that he needs to figure it out. Tell him that you accept HIM for who he is No matter what. Now he needs to ACCEPT you as his sex hungry hot young wife.

Put your damn foot down. This is why most marriages never last. NO COMMUNICATION. If you love him, learn how to express yourself and tell him. Get in his face as his Wife and tell him he needs to change his ways.

I do not think he is gay. If he were, he would say he were. And not skirt around the Bi-Sex excuse.

Good Luck !
 
I don't mind if someone is straight or gay, but I do have an issue if they are bisexual. They want the best of both worlds. Something tells me that is what is happening here. Who knows? He may have a male partner he's having sex with. You really should move on and find someone who is willing to actually be intimate with you.
 
He is gay. If you don't have children yet, you might want to admit that you made a mistake by marrying a man that does not want to be married, at least to a woman, divorce him and go back home to live with family until you get on your feet.

He was not honest with you to begin with. You should have had premarital counseling. It would have come out in the counseling and you could have broken off the engagement and wedding.

I think that it is very selfish of him to do this to you. Admit your mistake of marrying a gay man and fix it.
 
Some guys convince themselves they're bi, because it's their only hope for a "regular" life.It sounds to me like your husband is really gay. I'm sure that it's very painful for both of you. Contact PFLAG...just google them and maybe they can help you.
 
I am in sort of the same situation. Except we have a VERY healthy sex life. But the Bi/Gay issues weighs on my mind daily and has made me extremely insecure and suspicious.

Feel free to message me if you want to chat about it.
 
ask if he wants to do a three some with another male and if he says yes yes yes! then hes gay...
 
He should have told you he was bi before you got married. Marriage conseling, so you guys can find out what you really expect from each other. Ask him why he avoids sex? You dont deserve to suffer because of a husband that doesnt know what sex he likes.
 
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