daaancee <3
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figure out, please read? Im 15, trust me i can not write the entire story and situation down it will take me over 3 years, literally. but i just have one problem which i really need help for.
how do you get someone to think your not okay, and somethings wrong so they'll talk/or txt you first so you two can stat talking??
I am not ok, honestly (abuse stuff) the one person i trust, (my singing teacher) i don't know why its this person i didn't ask for it to be like this, it just is, i know im weird, this is not normal i know that. but i cant help it. so anyway!~ we used to talk heaps before, she know about the problem/situation, after a few months of talking and stuff which was amazing shes 22 btw. we just well, stopped! because she thinks its all finished and over. i want to start it up again to have things how they used to be. so we can talk and she can help me again etc. but there's no way i can talk to her or bring it up or anything first (long story, just trust me) so i need to find a way to get her to talk or txt me about it first so i can go from there. but how can i do that or hint that things arent ok??? ive tried acting really upset in class which i actually am. but that doesnt seem to work, i think shes starting to realise though, i need to kind of "put the cherry on top" if that makes sense, do something that will make her go "ok somethings not right, im gonna txt her tonight to see whats happening/how things are etc"
please listen and read carefully.
I know this is not normal, im weird, immature, attention seeking call me anything. but i am going through a really rough time right now, if you were in my shoes you would understand, everyone things and reacts to situations/abuse differently, i just cant help it.
i think about this 24/7 and its killing me. please help me find a way to get her to realise things arent right, or to hint something to her, that tells her i need to talk and im not ok. instead of just "acting upset" that can be step one.
I KNOW I HAVE ASKED THIS BEFORE. BUT EVERYONE SAID, "just tell her?" theres no way i can talk to her or bring it up first or anything. i need to find a way to get her to do that, please try and understand and just leave suggestions or something. much appreciated
please help me. Xx
how do you get someone to think your not okay, and somethings wrong so they'll talk/or txt you first so you two can stat talking??
I am not ok, honestly (abuse stuff) the one person i trust, (my singing teacher) i don't know why its this person i didn't ask for it to be like this, it just is, i know im weird, this is not normal i know that. but i cant help it. so anyway!~ we used to talk heaps before, she know about the problem/situation, after a few months of talking and stuff which was amazing shes 22 btw. we just well, stopped! because she thinks its all finished and over. i want to start it up again to have things how they used to be. so we can talk and she can help me again etc. but there's no way i can talk to her or bring it up or anything first (long story, just trust me) so i need to find a way to get her to talk or txt me about it first so i can go from there. but how can i do that or hint that things arent ok??? ive tried acting really upset in class which i actually am. but that doesnt seem to work, i think shes starting to realise though, i need to kind of "put the cherry on top" if that makes sense, do something that will make her go "ok somethings not right, im gonna txt her tonight to see whats happening/how things are etc"
please listen and read carefully.
I know this is not normal, im weird, immature, attention seeking call me anything. but i am going through a really rough time right now, if you were in my shoes you would understand, everyone things and reacts to situations/abuse differently, i just cant help it.
i think about this 24/7 and its killing me. please help me find a way to get her to realise things arent right, or to hint something to her, that tells her i need to talk and im not ok. instead of just "acting upset" that can be step one.
I KNOW I HAVE ASKED THIS BEFORE. BUT EVERYONE SAID, "just tell her?" theres no way i can talk to her or bring it up first or anything. i need to find a way to get her to do that, please try and understand and just leave suggestions or something. much appreciated
please help me. Xx