I'm 13 and want to no how dangerous it is to have sex with my 16 year old boyfriend?

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marycontrary9

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You are so young, and you have your whole life ahead of you. I don't know the percentages, i suppose you could look them up here on-line, but there is so much more to life than this one guy and this one moment.

If you love each other as you profess, please wait for each other to mature enough to make a real conscious decision about joining your bodies.

I do know that with you being 3 years younger, your boyfriend can be arrested and charged with rape even if you give your consent to engage in the sex act. This will follow him the rest of his life... he'll have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life. If you truly care about him, do not have sex.

If he loved you, he would not be putting you in the situation where you could get pregnant. Do you really want to be a 14 year old mother... it only takes one time. Truly, only one time. And, if you are both virgins, there should be no diseases... but suppose he's not... you'll be "in bed" with every person he's been "in bed" with, plus all the people his partners have been "in bed" with. I'm not saying he's a bad guy, but he is a GUY and guys will do and say ANYTHING to get the "cookie". Before you make the decision to go ahead, please read Steve Harvey's book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. This will give you many insights into the psyche of the male sex organ... and at 16yo, that's about all he is at the moment.

When you're grown and you have a good education... that's the time to plan a life with someone you have loved a long time. Do it right, get married, work hard at building your life, love each other and bring children into a secure, happy, loving environment.

Don't do it. Don't do it. Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
i love my boyfriend loads and i feel ready to have sex with him we have had dry sex and done other stuff but dunno about that one step further what are the consequences and what are the percentages and chances of pregnancy and disease? and how much trouble we get in if someone finds out i must add tht he has liked me for 6 years we really do like and love each other and he would never pressure me into anything and has left it to my desision
i do love him i no it and i no he isnt using me i no for sure he wouldnt do tht he has never slept with anyone else before and neither have i
 
just use a rubber and go fir it
don't listen to people telling you your too young, if your ready then do it.
i lost mine when i was 11 that was too young
 
There's no real danger if you just make sure to use a condom every time.

But you need to consider your age, you are still young, but if you have the desire to have sex with him I don't think you shouldn't. Just make sure it's worth it for your first time.

But also remember, he might get in trouble once he reaches 18 and you are 15 if you continue to have sex then, I am not sure on the laws, but he could actually in some cases be charged with having sex with a minor, but not sure since I live in Denmark and not in the states.
 
You say you're ready for sex, but you didn't say anything about being ready to have a baby and marry him. If you aren't ready for those you aren't ready for sex, even if you think you are.

As for how much trouble you'd get in to, if I was your father and caught you, I would have your boyfriend arrested, put in jail, and labeled a sexual predator for the rest of his life. If you're ready to do that to the boy you love, go ahead.
 
well take this in to consideration babe. the first time you have sex is supposed to be special. it can only happen once and your virginity is something you can only give away once. so when you are thinking about having sex with him think about is he worth it? is this who you want to remember your first time with?
everytime you have sex there is a chance of you getting pregnant. if you use a condom that chance is very low but there is still that one percent chance. if he has never slept with anyone else then there should not be a chance for desiease.
depending on what state you love in depends on if he would get in trouble. in kentucky were i live 16 is the age of concent.
this is a decision only you can make babe. do what you fell is right
 
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