I'm talking about, me and this guy, we've only known eachother for 3 months. We saw eachother around for a year before this, but never talked until 3 months ago. And from that point since then, we've gotten friendlier as we go along. He was flirting with me, light at first, then heavy and sexually. Thing is, he's never seen me. (We know eachother from Y!A, I'm scared to say which section b/c he's on the top 10).
But also, I look at him as like a brother rather then somebody I'd date, due to the fact that he ALSO shared some details about his past...without me asking at all. Things like his sexual experiences with girls, things about where he works and his job, just stuff like that. But I asked him if he lives alone and he said he lives with his mom due to the fact that she's disabled and he doesn't wanna leave her...he was open to me without complaining at all whether that was too personal or not.
I recently landed a job, and he wanted to know what I did and where I worked so he could stop by and say hi. He wanted to know my real name (which I don't mention), and other stuff. Plus he showed me his pic, and I would've showed him mine but I don't have digital ones online. Anyways, I'd think that he likes me, but I'm not sure.
He's not a creep, we both acknowledged that we're both just having online fun, although recently he said that he thinks about us in a relationship when we talk to eachother sometimes. He said he's willing to make things work as best as possible if we were to meet (long story), and just hang out and see where things go, but he was also a bit hesitant and so was I...something is holding us back from actually going there, and we both agreed to just keep talking online.
Keep in mind, we talk sexual sometimes...but I think he likes me too. Of course he would (hormones), but I'm saying I feel like *feelings* are coming into play too.
If you were a guy, and you told a chick alot of information about yourself while also flirting sexually with her, would you see her as just meat or something more?
Thanks.
But also, I look at him as like a brother rather then somebody I'd date, due to the fact that he ALSO shared some details about his past...without me asking at all. Things like his sexual experiences with girls, things about where he works and his job, just stuff like that. But I asked him if he lives alone and he said he lives with his mom due to the fact that she's disabled and he doesn't wanna leave her...he was open to me without complaining at all whether that was too personal or not.
I recently landed a job, and he wanted to know what I did and where I worked so he could stop by and say hi. He wanted to know my real name (which I don't mention), and other stuff. Plus he showed me his pic, and I would've showed him mine but I don't have digital ones online. Anyways, I'd think that he likes me, but I'm not sure.
He's not a creep, we both acknowledged that we're both just having online fun, although recently he said that he thinks about us in a relationship when we talk to eachother sometimes. He said he's willing to make things work as best as possible if we were to meet (long story), and just hang out and see where things go, but he was also a bit hesitant and so was I...something is holding us back from actually going there, and we both agreed to just keep talking online.
Keep in mind, we talk sexual sometimes...but I think he likes me too. Of course he would (hormones), but I'm saying I feel like *feelings* are coming into play too.
If you were a guy, and you told a chick alot of information about yourself while also flirting sexually with her, would you see her as just meat or something more?
Thanks.