leadtaco777
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Okay so I'm in high school and last summer I met this girl at a cancer walk. A few weeks after the walk my cousin told me she was interested in me so we started texting. We never got to hanging out but we did have like a relationship over texting lol (stupid i know). But we decided to tell each other personal things, because I think we felt comfortable doing it. She tells me she was raped and I tell her I have to hid kitchen knives from my mom. My mom constantly blocks her number just because we text too much. Then we break up yadayada. She's best friends with my cousin she tells my aunt on my dads side(mom and dad are seperated) about what I told her about my mom and starts this small family fued. About twice a month up until December we text, and thats it. Once December comes my mom feels generous and decides to unblock her number. Then in January we start texting once a week and then in February we start texting everyday.We start talking again, but this time it's more serious since we do see each other all the time.
Now here's the second incident.
She tells me her dad beat her before the weekend I am going to a leadership camp. I had to leave my phone at home, so my mom thinks its cool to read my texts. My mom calls the girl somewhat worried about her and tells her she can talk to her anytime. My mom was kinda open about an incident that happened to her five years ago, and i guess the girl got kinda creeped out. She calls up my aunt and then my aunt comes over harassing my mom , part of it because of what the girl had told her before that was betwwen me and her. My mom thinks its cool to go on my facebook while I'm away and post that the girl and my aunt are whores. The next day as soon as I walk through the door and hear this story the girl, her parents, my aunt, and my cousin show up. My aunt and my mom are yelling at each other while her parents are trying to have a civilized convo. But then her parents tell me she isn't allowed to talk to me because of this. This whole thing caused me to have a breakdown and turned into a custody issue and the cops got involved a little bit, but not with the girl. But this whole time I was worried about the girl.
Here's the aftermath.
Being not allowed to talk to her I decide to write her a note pretty much saying in a nutshell I really care about her, I want to be her friend, and I was sorry for not being cautious. A mutual friend then tells me that she threw the note away and that she was a little mad at me. She was mad cause her phone got taken away and her parents were mad at her.
Okay so I know my mom was wrong this whole time you and I am PISSED at her .dont need to explain that lol.
I really cared about this girl. But I also I feel like I should be mad at the girl. She's worried about her parents and her phone, while I had to go through something way worse right after coming home from camp, because she kept opening her mouth to my aunt. I'm trying to get this whole thing into perspective and it's really hard when I can't tell other people about the knife part.
So how do you think I should feel about this girl?
Now here's the second incident.
She tells me her dad beat her before the weekend I am going to a leadership camp. I had to leave my phone at home, so my mom thinks its cool to read my texts. My mom calls the girl somewhat worried about her and tells her she can talk to her anytime. My mom was kinda open about an incident that happened to her five years ago, and i guess the girl got kinda creeped out. She calls up my aunt and then my aunt comes over harassing my mom , part of it because of what the girl had told her before that was betwwen me and her. My mom thinks its cool to go on my facebook while I'm away and post that the girl and my aunt are whores. The next day as soon as I walk through the door and hear this story the girl, her parents, my aunt, and my cousin show up. My aunt and my mom are yelling at each other while her parents are trying to have a civilized convo. But then her parents tell me she isn't allowed to talk to me because of this. This whole thing caused me to have a breakdown and turned into a custody issue and the cops got involved a little bit, but not with the girl. But this whole time I was worried about the girl.
Here's the aftermath.
Being not allowed to talk to her I decide to write her a note pretty much saying in a nutshell I really care about her, I want to be her friend, and I was sorry for not being cautious. A mutual friend then tells me that she threw the note away and that she was a little mad at me. She was mad cause her phone got taken away and her parents were mad at her.
Okay so I know my mom was wrong this whole time you and I am PISSED at her .dont need to explain that lol.
I really cared about this girl. But I also I feel like I should be mad at the girl. She's worried about her parents and her phone, while I had to go through something way worse right after coming home from camp, because she kept opening her mouth to my aunt. I'm trying to get this whole thing into perspective and it's really hard when I can't tell other people about the knife part.
So how do you think I should feel about this girl?