If you had a miss carriage and or abortion before having your children do you think

[Big Daddy R]

you will ever tell them? I remember being a teen and my mother and grandmother talking about one of my aunts who had a miscarriage. My mother remarked at how bad her miscarriage felt before having me. I remember feeling hurt that I never knew about that baby. I know stupid the baby was never born never lived and was years before I was conceived. I wondered at the time why she never told me. As an adult with children I can see why my mother did that. It would of served no purpose to tell me. I would not benefit in anyway from that knowledge and there is never really a good time to bring it up. My life is not any richer for knowing or any less rich by not knowing. Dread question about tough questions from kids got me thinking on this. So if you lost a baby before having your other kids do you tell them? Why or Why not
I agree not to lie about it if they ask sure tell them but to just bring it up out of the blue seems pointless. Again this is to me I want to see what others have done/ will do