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Turtleonfire!
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and chat to someone else? I met a man from Russia a year ago at work and we emailed each other once but I was in a relationship. This year, both being single, we worked together on a temporary contract for a month, and started a relationship where we saw each other everyday and practically moved in together. The contract finished days ago.
Since then, there have been 3 emails, one each day, between us, but he's a very obscure writer, writing random, almost mad sounding things(!) and besides that, he doesn't really like to lay his cards on the table so to speak about how he feels...has never had a proper, long term relationship.
His last email was very short because he had just got back from the pub and I could tell was quite drunk. However, he wrote it because he logged on and found I had emailed him that day...I've now left it 2 days to reply because I'm wondering whether I should....
a) wait for him to send a proper, longer email that makes more sense....
and
b) not email him everyday so he has a chance to kind of 'chase' me/miss me...though I am worried that if I do that he'll just meet someone from his own country in a bar??
I would love to email him or phone him (that hasn't been mentioned yet) all day everyday but I don't want to seem too keen when I don't know how he feels.....His first email made out that he either missed me or is suddenly suffering from major depression! (I went with the former), In my reply I told him that it was quite depressing not being able to see him everyday, but in his short drunken email reply, he doesn't allude to that....
should I give him space or carry on contacting him daily as we have been doing so far.....I am actually head over heels in love with him!
Since then, there have been 3 emails, one each day, between us, but he's a very obscure writer, writing random, almost mad sounding things(!) and besides that, he doesn't really like to lay his cards on the table so to speak about how he feels...has never had a proper, long term relationship.
His last email was very short because he had just got back from the pub and I could tell was quite drunk. However, he wrote it because he logged on and found I had emailed him that day...I've now left it 2 days to reply because I'm wondering whether I should....
a) wait for him to send a proper, longer email that makes more sense....
and
b) not email him everyday so he has a chance to kind of 'chase' me/miss me...though I am worried that if I do that he'll just meet someone from his own country in a bar??
I would love to email him or phone him (that hasn't been mentioned yet) all day everyday but I don't want to seem too keen when I don't know how he feels.....His first email made out that he either missed me or is suddenly suffering from major depression! (I went with the former), In my reply I told him that it was quite depressing not being able to see him everyday, but in his short drunken email reply, he doesn't allude to that....
should I give him space or carry on contacting him daily as we have been doing so far.....I am actually head over heels in love with him!