If you ask a girl out will she automatically become your girlfriend?

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Because i'm 13 and my parents have rules about not having a gf till 17.I'm thinking of asking a girl I know to a valentine dance. Me and her know each other pretty well but I don't think she likes me that way yet. should I ask her? Should I kiss her at the end (hey it is valentines) or would she find that too pushy after one dateI have so many questions because I never have been on a date or had a gf
 
Because i'm 13 and my parents have rules about not having a gf till 17.:(I am turning 14 in a week, just go over first relationship or whatever you want to call it, seeing as my parents never knew about it... It was more of just being friends.Anyyyyways, if your parents are dead set on no gf until 17, you're pretty much fucked.
 
Ask her to go with you, You won't autmatically become gf/bf.She'll probably say yes.Kiss her cheek. Its the cutest.:)
 
No. Dating is for checking if you're meant for each others - or just have a fun time. She is not your girlfriend until you ask if she wants to be your girlfriend.
 
In high school, yes. In the real world, no. You can ask the girl out, but make sure she knows that it's a date and you're not her boyfriend. You don't have to kiss her either.
 
If you ask a girl out, then no.. but if you continue going out, then you're dating..You aren't boyfriend and girlfriend until someone asks someone to be.
 
it is ok to have just 1 date if you want or if she wants. Being friends is good too. Just take one fun date at a time. There are no set rules.
 
Not if she doesn't want to be know, it's not like a binding contract or anything :PYou can always be 'good freinds' and get to know each other better before taking that next step of being around each other even more so. As far as the kiss, if she seems into you, a peck wouldn't hurt, unless she shows you some fish lips and then you can give her a full on face snog XD (not really, but on the lips anywho)
 
if you ask her to a dance that deffinatly does not mean she is your girlfriend. but i mean if she ends up going with you to the dance see how it goes there if she seems into you then yeah a nice kiss at the end of the dance would be cute. it is valentines day:)
 
No she won't become your girlfriend by just going out with you. That will have to be decided by more verbal action. Testing the waters of relationships is best dealt with by being just friends. No pressure. Wrong decisions are made by young people under pressure. Enjoy your youth. Once you cross over the line into adulthood the real life begins and it isn't any fun when your not mature enough to handle it. If she wants to kiss you, then think about what your going to do. good luck
 
Yes and no. A first date doesn't make you bf and gf already. After one date people might not like eachother that way. If you kiss then usually you're officially bf and gf. Don't be pushy though. And not on the first date either.
 
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