Valerie Birkley
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Sorry for how long this is, but I have to explain who I'm talking about here...
So okay, I'm a Junior in high school and I've been going to school with this guy since 6th grade.
We've never talked.. actually we have pretty much ignored each other all these years.
Well starting this year, I've noticed that he is actually really hot.
I sorta stare at him a lot, but I don't think he notices because he never catches me staring, or maybe he knows I am and just takes it... because yeah... he is sorta arrogant.
He is one of the jock guys and he's so full of himself.
I'm a really shy person. I'm easy to talk to if you're the one that approaches me, but I'm not someone people would want to hang out with because I hardly talk. which is why I've never talked to him before.
So yeah, this guy is really intimidating. Especially when he talks with his other 'cool' friends at school. So of course a girl like me that isn't very popular could never approach him.
I try to be confident though, and smile as much as I can.
ANYWAYS, ever since I went to the high school dance and bravely danced with him... not really with him, but we were sorta dancing along side each other. It was really close contact though, I was actually awkwardly grinding on his hips because my friend was crushing me into him. our bodies were pretty much intact, so it very much looked like we were vigorously dancing with each other.
I was afraid he'd be all, "ew!" and move away from me, because like i said, this is the first time I've ever communicated with him since 6th grade, and it's such a weird way to do so... but yeah, he actually didn't seem to mind, so we danced until the music calmed, and then we just sorta separated and started slow dancing with our friends.
We never talked while we danced with each other. In fact I wasn't even facing him when we were dancing, I was too scared to look up at him, because he felt so nice and I didn't want to freak him out or something... so when we separated I still didn't look back. I asked my friend how he reacted to me though.
but yeah... this guy is interested in really really 'hot' types of girls like most arrogant jock guys... and to be honest, I'm not 'hot'. I'm average looking. plus I'm really quiet.
But anyways... before this night, when he never knew I existed, I'd see him look at me, but that was probably just the usual 'accidental glance at some random person', and that random person happened to be me... or my eyes were deceiving, so I thought he was staring when he was not.
but i mean, right now, I actually know that he is studying me... like seriously.
I'm sure that I'm over thinking his REASON for looking at me, because everytime we make eye contact, it's not him catching me staring, I look over and see him staring.
It's not that often though that i see him looking. It's maybe occasionally that he looks at me, but of course i only have one class with him, so I'm not given much time to really observe him.. When he walks by me in the hallways, he doesn't look at me, he just pulls this serious face and seems to walk with his shoulders back, like he is trying to be impressive. but maybe that's unintentional, and his usual 'I'm so full of myself' attitude.
But okay, enough stories, here is the question...
Whenever he usually sees me I'm dead silent, so I'm thinking maybe he is just curious about me because he is surprised at how brave I was at the dance. because seriously, before this, he never noticed me. I've always wanted him to notice me, though. He just isn't the type of guy to give an average girl like me a chance... but I'm not sure, maybe I'm wrong. that's sure what i overhear when he talks to his friends, though. But that might just be him trying to sound cool.
I want him to like me.... but that's so unlikely. because in my eyes, he is perfect apart from his arrogance. I feel like I'm not worthy. I know we have a lot in common though.. if he just gave me a chance to talk.
So which to do you guys think, does he like me, or is he just curious?
or maybe some advice for a shy girl like me to get noticed by him?
So okay, I'm a Junior in high school and I've been going to school with this guy since 6th grade.
We've never talked.. actually we have pretty much ignored each other all these years.
Well starting this year, I've noticed that he is actually really hot.
I sorta stare at him a lot, but I don't think he notices because he never catches me staring, or maybe he knows I am and just takes it... because yeah... he is sorta arrogant.
He is one of the jock guys and he's so full of himself.
I'm a really shy person. I'm easy to talk to if you're the one that approaches me, but I'm not someone people would want to hang out with because I hardly talk. which is why I've never talked to him before.
So yeah, this guy is really intimidating. Especially when he talks with his other 'cool' friends at school. So of course a girl like me that isn't very popular could never approach him.
I try to be confident though, and smile as much as I can.
ANYWAYS, ever since I went to the high school dance and bravely danced with him... not really with him, but we were sorta dancing along side each other. It was really close contact though, I was actually awkwardly grinding on his hips because my friend was crushing me into him. our bodies were pretty much intact, so it very much looked like we were vigorously dancing with each other.
I was afraid he'd be all, "ew!" and move away from me, because like i said, this is the first time I've ever communicated with him since 6th grade, and it's such a weird way to do so... but yeah, he actually didn't seem to mind, so we danced until the music calmed, and then we just sorta separated and started slow dancing with our friends.
We never talked while we danced with each other. In fact I wasn't even facing him when we were dancing, I was too scared to look up at him, because he felt so nice and I didn't want to freak him out or something... so when we separated I still didn't look back. I asked my friend how he reacted to me though.
but yeah... this guy is interested in really really 'hot' types of girls like most arrogant jock guys... and to be honest, I'm not 'hot'. I'm average looking. plus I'm really quiet.
But anyways... before this night, when he never knew I existed, I'd see him look at me, but that was probably just the usual 'accidental glance at some random person', and that random person happened to be me... or my eyes were deceiving, so I thought he was staring when he was not.
but i mean, right now, I actually know that he is studying me... like seriously.
I'm sure that I'm over thinking his REASON for looking at me, because everytime we make eye contact, it's not him catching me staring, I look over and see him staring.
It's not that often though that i see him looking. It's maybe occasionally that he looks at me, but of course i only have one class with him, so I'm not given much time to really observe him.. When he walks by me in the hallways, he doesn't look at me, he just pulls this serious face and seems to walk with his shoulders back, like he is trying to be impressive. but maybe that's unintentional, and his usual 'I'm so full of myself' attitude.
But okay, enough stories, here is the question...
Whenever he usually sees me I'm dead silent, so I'm thinking maybe he is just curious about me because he is surprised at how brave I was at the dance. because seriously, before this, he never noticed me. I've always wanted him to notice me, though. He just isn't the type of guy to give an average girl like me a chance... but I'm not sure, maybe I'm wrong. that's sure what i overhear when he talks to his friends, though. But that might just be him trying to sound cool.
I want him to like me.... but that's so unlikely. because in my eyes, he is perfect apart from his arrogance. I feel like I'm not worthy. I know we have a lot in common though.. if he just gave me a chance to talk.
So which to do you guys think, does he like me, or is he just curious?
or maybe some advice for a shy girl like me to get noticed by him?