If our sex life is not good, what is the probability of a last marriage?

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We've been together for over 6 years and married almost 3 years. Our sex has never been blow your mind amazing, but it was pretty consistent. Now, we hardly ever have sex and we've both become aware of that. We would like to see a sex therapist, but I'm not sure how helpful that's going to be.

Neither of us has really ever put an emphasis on sex, but we know it's important. The other aspects of our marriage are pretty good, and for any problems we talk through them or even visit a counselor if necessary. So, I guess what I'm saying is that the only part of our marriage that's crappy is our sex life. If we can't fix that, is it possible to survive?
 
My wife and I have been married over 12 years and lack of sex has been a problem. The bigger issue though has been that for YEARS my wife would not discuss it. We are finally going to counseling but she still does not like to discuss it. Frankly, I still don't know what the problem is. It eats at me every day... thus I've asked a million related questions on YA.

I am finally in the stages of giving up, although I don't really want a divorce. We have two kids and I really do like my wife. I just don't know why she's so cold. She will not touch me in bed and she really doesn't like to talk or hug or anything that creates intimacy.

It's possible to survive as long as no one leaves.
 
it is possible not probable though, it should only concern you if one or both of you are unhappy with the slow down. People lose interest in sex for lots of reasons you and your mate should sit down and hash out all the reasons you individually are not in the mood, when you do this I think you will at least be a bit.
 
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