...appointment what happens? I have sole custody of my 2 year old with no visitation to his dad due to a restraining order. At my default hearing my ex showed up and claimed my restraining order is bs and everything I am saying is a lie and that he does not agree with the custody arrangement and that the other judge would not listen to him. This judge granted him a continuance for the default and ordered us to go to mediation for possible visitation. My ex never showed up to the mediation. What happens now? I know we still have out new default hearing in a couple weeks, but as far as mediation and visitation what happens since he never showed up? How does that look on his part since this judge gave him this chance?