If my new b/f found out about my past?

[icee15]

would he find it sexy or disgusting? I had a lesbian experience early on in college. It was fun for a while to be honest (no fear of pregnancy, no condoms, we each knew what to do to make a woman happy). But, if my b/f finds out do you think this would be a turn on or a turn off? To date (a little over one week of dating), he has not even made a move on me, and since the ex-flame of mine still lives in my complex, he could, I suppose, run into her sometime.

 

[R0nda]

I think you shouldn't try to hide it. There's no reason you have to come out and tell him if he doesn't ask, but if he does find out don't hide it. It's part of who you are, and if he can't accept that then he's not right for you.

 

[r00k]

Most guys do not mind, I certainly didn't when I found out that my wife is bi and I found out alot more than just that. Being with another female is pretty much hoped for by almost all guys. But, when it comes to the more taboo things. Tread carefully

 

[iceman]

Let that sleeping dog lie. Do not lie about but be sure you do not bring it up. He is close enough to my generation to still be of the generation who might freak out. You need to get to know him a lot better before that kind discussion comes up. Ladies your age are much more aggressive the the ones of my generation and probably his. Keep things low key for a decent amount of time. He sounds like an old school Gentleman so it might be months before he gets to pushing for sex. Depends on religious beliefs also. He IS of a generation that has double standards about sex. One kind of girl is OK for a casual fling but is not someone you bring home to meet mother. One kind of girl is OK to bring home to meet mother but is not the kind of girl who has round heels. and then there is the final kind of GIRL who you want to take home to meet mother but not until you have a RING on her finger to keep Dad under control. From what I know about you I seriously suspect that you fall in the third category.