If a moms job of choice is dancing is she a bad mom?

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i have been working in gentalmens clubs since i dropped out of high school. The club i was working at got busted in a raid so now i am unimployd and when i was applying for a job in another town someone told me that i was a bad mom for dancing. Its good money i make 300 dollers a day sometimes.
 
I think you should be able to work where you want, but the fact that it got raided alludes to the fact there may be more to it than dancing.

It is something your kids will be teased about. And if you have daughters, there definately could be self-esteem issues.

There are other jobs that pay well. Go back to school.

I don't think you're a bad mom, but I just think you need to think better of yourself.

btw, your avatar needs help as well.
 
You mean erotic dancing? Yes, it is a bad choice on your behalf, but I doubt it makes you a bad mom. I can see why people would think that though. You have to agree, that this type of dancing and this type of job, is not the most respectable or safe thing in the world to be doing on a regular basis right?

Why don't you get a job in Walmart, or some where like that? I'm not being a smartass by saying that either. If you're a good employee, then you'll have a raise in no time !! I worked there for three years when raising my son alone while my husband was in Iraq....and we were only 21. There are alot of better options out there for a job, and if you could just see that, you would find something more suitable for you AND your child.

Good luck.
 
no not at all! honey do what you have to do to take care of you kid(s) and yourself! i used to dance and i paid my hospital bills with the money and i bought a car and paid all my bills for a long time with the money i made dancing. as long as the dancing doesn't include the drama of drugs and alc and it doesn't affect the way you raise your child(ren) then no it doesn't not at all. do what you have to do!
 
How about getting your GED and going to college to make a better life for your child instead of shaking your ass and degrading yourself in front of a bunch of low down men.Do you want your child to grow up knowing his/her mother takes her clothes clothes off for money?Use your mind to make a living instead of your body.Have some dignity.
 
My opinion is that as long as you are out there working and bringing in money, I don’t see how any of us can judge you. There are better jobs out there, but at least you’re working. There are people that sit at home, making baby after baby, with ZERO intentions on working, and they mooch off the system. No, not everyone is like that, but there are a good amount that are.

As with any job, as long as your child is first and you don’t lose focus of what’s important, than who am I to judge?
 
Even if the money is good, I could never be a dancer in a gentleman's club. I think you are teaching your daughter that it's okay for men to treat women as playthings and objects instead of people. And that it's okay for her to take her clothes off for strangers as long as she's getting paid.

And if you have a son, you are teaching HIM that it's okay to objectify women. Or that he doesn't have to respect or take you seriously because your job requires very little talent or brains.

Anyone with a hot body can get a job taking off their clothes. If you want to be taken seriously, get a job where you use your brain, not your boobs.
 
No, I don't think your career choice has anything to do with being a good/bad parent.
 
I personally used to work at a gentlemans club myself before having my kids. I doubt I would dance agian just because I want better for myself and I would feel ashamed and think "what if my kids only knew etc" But, then agian I am married and do have a job and a husband to help with money. If push came to shove of course I would dance to provide for my kids, being a exotic dancer doesn't have anything to do with your mothering skills and I suggest hitting the next person that says something negative like that in the mouth.
 
Of course not! You have a great paying job and are able to care for your child. Dancers are not prostitutes and their job is very demanding. Good for you and good luck at your new job.
 
You know I've thought about that too, but the thought of my daughters friends or parents coming in made me stop right there.

There is that ''air of degradition'' to it, no matter how good the money is, the job will never be respected.

But when pushed comes to shove, you take what job you can get right?!
 
its not bad if its something that is paying the bills if your not bringing the men home then no its not bad. if your bringing the men home that your dancing for then hell yes your a bad mom one of those men can be a complete psychopath. most women who drop out of highschool cannot do the phsyical labor that men can to make the money that they can make after dropping out and the resort to dancing. ignore them if your doing what you can but if you can find a better job that will pay the same then switch hun.
 
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