I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks and it has gotten hot and heavy - we would do heavy petting and stuff.. but thats about it. Each time it builds up almost to oral or sex he would say "I have to go because (some random excuse here)" and he says that sometimes he says he has to go to avoid sexual confrontations with me.. that is so weird.. and he says he wants to wait and doesn't want to have sex. He's not a virgin and has had sex with numerous girls before - he's 27. He's not religious so I'm not sure what's going on. I'm a little chubby - could that be it? Because I've been working out a lot lately and he said he would like to wait 3 months!?! Is he waiting till I am skinny!?
Is he not interested? Cause most men that are would just jump on the situation right?
So my question is, if a guy turns down sex and he says he wants to wait.. does that mean hes not interested in having sex with me? Wants to take the relationship serious? Or just having sex with someone else?...
Is he not interested? Cause most men that are would just jump on the situation right?
So my question is, if a guy turns down sex and he says he wants to wait.. does that mean hes not interested in having sex with me? Wants to take the relationship serious? Or just having sex with someone else?...