If a guy tries to have sex with you the first time you meet...?

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does that mean he is not interested in you except for booty calls? And if you do end up having sex the 1st time, what is the likely hood he will ever want more than a hook up. Now mind you we are talking about people in their mid 30's here.

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I should have explained more. He is a classmate whom I never really knew. We ended up on one of the reunion/face book/my space sites and started instant messaging, then texting and then phone calls. That went on for 1 about 1 week prior to meeting.

Even after the fact, we still went out on our planned date a few days later. I asked him directly if he was looking for hook ups or more. He told me that he was looking for more should it work out. He asked me why would he follow through with our plans if he was just playing games. Good Point?
 
Mid 30's?
Makes no difference.
Men are men.
You are a booty call, nothing more.
I'm a man and I can say, Men Are PIGS!
I apologize for my gender. But that is the way we are.
 
If you are comfortable having sex on your first date then go ahead. Just remember that relationships based on sex usually don't last very long once you actually leave the bedroom. You usually find out that besides sex you don't really have a lot in common. It is better to find out about each other outside the bedroom before you jump into bed. But the choice is yours, you're not a kid
 
In your 30's, it is very possible he want to know if you are sexually compatible before getting into a long term relationship. I did it on the second date with my now husband. It is not about sex, but wanting a happy future.
 
Hookups are kind of well convenient, but not fulfilling. Booty calls cut both ways.

Sex on the first date, well .... that can either be really good, or er ... not that good.

It really depends on how hard up the two of you are I guess. I mean if you're both in your 30's, then the real question is what do YOU want, what does HE want, and do the both of you want the same thing?

Its not unusual, especially for single parents, to take advantage of the moment, particularly when they don't have a lot of time with work and kids and all.

So I can see stabbing at the first time, first date thing and maybe the booty call thing too. But if you're looking for a deeper more meaningful relationship, maybe things should be "planned" around relaxed spontaneity rather than love at first spark.
 
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