...how would he go about it? I slept with a girl who is basically a lapdancer, but i didn't know she was one of them until we got to know each other better. We slept together on a couple of occasions, usually after her shift ended and she came out for the night with me n my friends. I know her a lot more now than i did and would like to maybe take things further, but i really don't know how because she is a lap dancer and i'm not sure what i would think about her being naked in front of strangers for a living. Don't get me wrong we have a great laugh and fun times, but we have also had deep conversations and i've come to realise that there is more to her than just her looks, she really does have a great personality to match. It's just her occupation that bothers me a little bit, but i suppose i could handle it.