ifÂ*IÂ*wasÂ*aÂ*drunkenÂ*loserÂ*withÂ*noÂ* job, no car, no phone and do

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Brandon T

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ifÂ*IÂ*wasÂ*aÂ*drunkenÂ*loserÂ*withÂ*noÂ* job, no car, no phone and do

drugs,Â*couldÂ*IÂ*getÂ*aÂ*girlfriendÂ* then? As opposed to what I am now because it doesn't seem to work. It just seems all every freaking girl I meet wants the loser to take care of but they end up complaining that they don't get treated right.
I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND IT!
No, I'm 23. I've only had sex twice and I just found out my "dad" is married to my ex girlfriend, who was also my first! I CAN'T FREAKING WIN!!!!
 
In all honesty, that's what some girls get. always. For example, not to boast or anything, but I think I'm pretty cute (but a lot of people say I'm hot, but they just think they're getting somewhere with me) and I'm smart. I have a good personality and I'm really outgoing.

When it comes to guys, I have the most intelligent gorgeous guy falling all over me... yet, I still pick the ugly loser that just wants to use me for money or whatever. And yes, I do complain to those handsome guys that still like me, and are my best friends. I just don't know.

The most recent guy, is definitely the most decent guy. He wasn't exactly intelligent, but he was sweet and handsome, and I didn't have one complaint in the world about him, until he went home for the summer. Now, he's become a typical guy that I date, and he's decided that we need to 'take a break'. I think this is why girls date losers. We expect them to treat us bad, and if they turn nice, well, we lucked out. And by complaining about them, it puts up a barrier. It still hurts, but, not as bad as it could.

When we date our ideal guy, or nearly ideal, and then they get stupid/get mixed up with the wrong crowd/ break up with us... it hurts so much more. We just didn't expect it out of them. We had this whole mental plan down that this is the type of guy we wanted to spend our lives with. Not necessarily THE guy, but, definitely the type of guy we would want.
 
Maybe you are going after the wrong kind girls.
I would suggest going for all types of girls
And...
Just be patient. The right girl will come along soon.
 
Welcome to the club. I assume you're young, so while you're single just focus on improving yourself. Study hard, go to the gym, all that stuff.
 
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