Kobe bryant
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I'm 17 turning 18 in 16 days and she is 17.
many of people say i should confront her parents?
I really do want to, but my girlfriend is holding me back.
because her mom told her that she could put me in jail when i turn 18 blah blah and that her dad might hit me.
She knows her parents more than me so we decided that we should just wait until she turn 18 and confront them..
So i just write a letter for now and ill just do the rest after high school.
we are both going to be senior this coming school but we dont go the same school.
here's the letter
Dear Mr. and Mrs.
I just want to apologize for my actions. I know it was wrong to sneak around with daughter without your permission. It was all my fault, we weren’t thinking about what was going to happen because we just wanted to see each other very badly. However, whatever I say, whatever our reason may be, I know for a fact that what I did was wrong and I’m extremely sorry for it. I know that I’ve disrespected the both of you by sneaking out with your daughter and it was an unacceptable decision.
My intentions with your daughter were not dishonorable ones, but I understand your concern because what we did was incorrect. If I were the parents in this situation, I would be angry as well. Regards to your daughter education, I understand that you as parents want her to finish high school, go to college and have a good stable job. I definitely agree because I also want the best for her.
I really like your daughter and I would do anything just to keep her smiling. I don’t have anything but good intentions towards her because of how much I care for her. I really, truly have a lot of respect for the both of you as parents and that‘s why I‘m writing you a letter.
Even though, this letter probably wont make any difference to either of you but I just would like to show some respect and courage to both of you and to let you know that I really care about your daughter and I respect her. I might not know the both of you, but I have heard a lot of good things and I know for a fact, that you guys have the heart to forgive. All the same, sometimes people make mistakes too. We are only a human and no one is perfect.
I truly understand your anger towards me. All I can do now is ask for your forgiveness, and understanding fully that you may not be able to forgive me at this time. I hope that in the future, however, you will be able to do so. Again, I meant no harm to your daughter and I really care about her. I am sorry.
Respectfully,
many of people say i should confront her parents?
I really do want to, but my girlfriend is holding me back.
because her mom told her that she could put me in jail when i turn 18 blah blah and that her dad might hit me.
She knows her parents more than me so we decided that we should just wait until she turn 18 and confront them..
So i just write a letter for now and ill just do the rest after high school.
we are both going to be senior this coming school but we dont go the same school.
here's the letter
Dear Mr. and Mrs.
I just want to apologize for my actions. I know it was wrong to sneak around with daughter without your permission. It was all my fault, we weren’t thinking about what was going to happen because we just wanted to see each other very badly. However, whatever I say, whatever our reason may be, I know for a fact that what I did was wrong and I’m extremely sorry for it. I know that I’ve disrespected the both of you by sneaking out with your daughter and it was an unacceptable decision.
My intentions with your daughter were not dishonorable ones, but I understand your concern because what we did was incorrect. If I were the parents in this situation, I would be angry as well. Regards to your daughter education, I understand that you as parents want her to finish high school, go to college and have a good stable job. I definitely agree because I also want the best for her.
I really like your daughter and I would do anything just to keep her smiling. I don’t have anything but good intentions towards her because of how much I care for her. I really, truly have a lot of respect for the both of you as parents and that‘s why I‘m writing you a letter.
Even though, this letter probably wont make any difference to either of you but I just would like to show some respect and courage to both of you and to let you know that I really care about your daughter and I respect her. I might not know the both of you, but I have heard a lot of good things and I know for a fact, that you guys have the heart to forgive. All the same, sometimes people make mistakes too. We are only a human and no one is perfect.
I truly understand your anger towards me. All I can do now is ask for your forgiveness, and understanding fully that you may not be able to forgive me at this time. I hope that in the future, however, you will be able to do so. Again, I meant no harm to your daughter and I really care about her. I am sorry.
Respectfully,