So like me and my boyfriend are waiting until it won't ruin our lives. Like until we are engaged and soon to be married. Is that a good idea or should we wait until marrige?
bibically, you should wait until marriage. realistically, it is a good idea to wait until you are at least engaged to make sure you are getting what you want. marriage is forever and sexual compatibility is a big factor in relationships.
It sound like you are one of the only sensible teens that gets on this sight. That is a great idea and I am very proud of you two. Now after marriage would def. be the better choice but good for you either way!