i wish

Perhapse don't eat McDonalds, go on a diet. Self discipln woman (I'm guessing)!
You ain't going to get skinny by wishing for it. Put some effort into changing yourself.
 
its not always so simple.. Im a large person myself.. I was thin once... over 4 years ago I was 200 lbs.. then I dropped to 175 from the navy... now im 250 lbs.. I dont eat any more then I did when I was 200... actually less.. many factors come into play.. age, diet, activity, and yes.. genetics... im older now.. I am naturally large.. when I was 175, I felt underweight. even though I was considered to be prime weight.

now I do feel overweight. encumbered... however I dont eat anymore then I did when I was 200 lbs.. even less really.. its just really that its harder to take off then put on... I dropped 25 lbs in the navy because I was physically strained all day every day for 8 1/2 weeks. but in day to day life I dont have time for a daily workout scedual of that nature... so be it..

reguardless I may be fat but I work hard and do more work then many people much thinner then myself. and thats all that matters...
 
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When you're not comfortable with body size/shape, might consider finding a physical activity that can change it. Yoga, dancing, even walking can make a difference over time.

Hang in there - if you want to change, it will happen.
 
i've recently dropped about 40 lbs (probably put a few back on since i got sick) but it can be done. just another 40 lbs to go heheh

you can do it :thumbsup:
 
You have two options, either accept the way you are and learn to develop some confidence, or do as others have said and do the work to become slender (notice I use the word slender. Curves are good, sticks are bad). If you accept you for you and develop confidence people will love you, no matter what size you are. If, however, you want to lose weight for health reasons, go for it! Believe in yourself and get it done.
 
I agree with Tiger.

Personally, I dont mind being fat. What I mind is skinny twats telling me I should be thin, and the media frenzy telling me I am not good enough.

Fuck that. I earned every fucking pound I have. I gave birth to three kids. I work full time at a rather intense career. I dont have time, I dont care. My man loves me, My kids love me.

If you think being fat keeps you from having a good life, you are wrong. Attitude keeps you from having a good life.

I have a good man, i was fat when we met and I will be fat when one of us dies.
 
eh i'm not fat nor am i skinny, but i hate my weight either way. i think most people hate stuff abot themselves. its more about comming to terms with yourself, becomming more comfortable in your own skin. anyhoo, if you hate the way you look then suck it up and do something about it. i exorcise everyday and watch what i eat, i want fast food all the time but i avoid it, with age, i gain weight easily now. so now i diet on whole wheat pasta no bread and watch mt meat. plus from time to time i eat meal replacment bars to cut out meals. anyhoo, its up to you what you do not anyone else. either you get sick of complaining and do something or you complain forever.
 
/me applauds dustinzgirl

I could NOT agree more!

You know what? God made people ALL different sizes and shapes and colors. Fuck what the media says. If you are HEALTHY it doesn't matter a DAMN. You can be what is considered by some as "overweight" and not have high blood pressure, high cholestorol (sp*), or any other health problem even. OR....even is you aren't perfectly healthy....some people smoke. That's not healthy EITHER. Why is it we always pick on people who are overweight? What a bunch of CRAP.

Both of my parents are overweight and I KNOW how much emotional pain that has caused my mother at times. My father ADORES her. He could not care less. But because other people have been mean to her, she has cried rivers of tears over it. Well that is a bunch of bullshit.

I, personally think, that we should all just work harder at being emotionally healthy about how we feel about ourselves AS WE ARE (not as we are NOT), and then work on ourselves from there. You can't really change until you accept and love yourself where you ARE. If you try to....the changes will be fleeting, because they won't be motivated out of self-love, but out of self-loathing. And changes that are not motivated out of love, are destined to fail, because even once you are thinner, you will still find things about yourself that you "hate" and then you will sabotage yourself.

You have to accept and love yourself the way you ARE before you can be any OTHER way.

Don't believe me? Ask a shrink. I've had YEARS of therapy....I know. LMAO
 
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