i was almost hoodwinked?

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Linda

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i was with my guy for 3 years and i knew he might have owed a little child support but ladies and men when you hook up with someone ask them about their fiances. Ididn't i almost married the guy. he moved in with me in my home and wanted to merry me after 3 months of dating. I refused but his bill came in and he was in debt of over 100,000 dollars.i figured it out he wanted to merry me to pay off his irs and child support.I didn't see that because i felt i was to bueitiful to be used.i put him out and i seen him with another women3 days later.I could kick my own butt, i thought i was smartr that that,The nex guy will have to have plenty to even get my attention.Because now i'll use my god blesse looks to take takt and take.so i hope no man don't runinto me right now.because i have game awaeness now so just like men i'm going to see how many men i can f------over
 
While it is understandable to be angry about being mislead and lied to by your ex-boyfriend, lumping ALL men in that category is both ignorant and unhealthy. I suggest you get a good therapist and work through your resentment towards all men based on one man's actions. While you may get temporary satisfaction taking your anger out on the next few guys that come along, the only one you will be really be hurting in the long run is yourself. The next person you meet could be a genuine, honest, good guy, but you will either not attract those types of men with that kind of energy you're putting out, or you will sabotage any chance of a relationship with mistrust from the beginning.

It takes time to heal after being hurt deeply. Give yourself the time and space you need to move past this maturely. If you speak to a professional about your feelings of betrayal, anger and resentment, you may have a chance to regain a healthy perspective and again be open to finding someone who genuinely cares for you. Otherwise, you may find yourself going from one relationship to the next with no chance for real intimacy due to your trust issues.

I'm sorry to hear that you were hurt. It is neither fair or right that someone used you in that manner, but don't make the mistake of punishing yourself and missing out on potential opportunities for meeting the 'right one' because you cannot get past your anger and resentment.

Hope that helps!
 
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