...please help!? I had a friend whos behavior confused the hell out of me! We were really close. We knew each other for 2 years but started getting close and it lasted for about 2 months (our closeness). She would tell me personal things. So to me this made me believe she was my friend because she shared things with me. I didnt want to get too trusting just yet so i never told her my secrets (thank god i never did!). SHe was really sweet to my face most of the time. But every now and then she would say little insulting things to me. But she would pull it off almost as if she didnt "mean" to. As if she didnt know she was insulting me. Anyways. after about two months or so her personality took a 360 degree turn. If my fiance and i would visit her and her boyfriend she would ignore me. Not greet me at all and just pass by me and act like i wasnt there. She would talk on the phone rather than attending her guest and occasionaly would just walk out and hang out with other friends.As if i wasnt even around! THe insults now grew worse! They became very hurtful and she would say it in front of others as if she was trying to prove a point or trying to embarrass me or look bad. Honest to god she acted like she hated me all of a sudden! and please dont say mabe you did something to her becaue i really didnt! dispite her little insults from when we were "friends" i would always be nice to her no matter what! and all of a sudden she acted like she hated me yet putting all of her OTHER friends on a pedestal! why would someone act like they are your friend for 2 months. and that they care about your relationship with them and over night act like it never happened!?
I want to know what this behavior means. Anyone who knows Psycology a little...
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