I want to have unprotected sex with my boyfriend (I'm 20, gay). How do I know if it

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is safe? We have been tested (both negative). But I worry about the window period. I trust him but then I'm sure people have trusted before. I really want to have unprotected sex with him as it feels much closer but is it worth the risk?
 
Well, first, I hope you have been tested more than just for AIDS. You dont want to get other STDs such as hepatitis, herpes, etc, etc. And then, if you really want, wait a little bit longer for re-testing. Finally, be sure that both of you are completely monogamous (such a difficult task)
 
This is a hard one to answer. Only you know how much you can trust your bf. What it boils down to is .... Can you trust him with your life?
Good luck!
 
If you are certain he is faithful to you and as you said the test was negative then go for it.
But if you even have 1% doubt then don't take the risk. If he has been with someone else since he has been tested then there is no way of knowing if he is still clean.

Ultimately its your choice. Weigh up the pros's and cons and also the risks before you make your decision.

=)
 
well its not safe. its not safe at all. Use a condom its best.

and just have fun with it

just use a condom
 
only you can really answer this. others can lay out all the facts, the pros and cons and such, and you'll have to decide. sorry i can't be of more help. i'm not too good with this stuff.
 
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