Marie Green
New member
My boyfriend and I recently started having sex about a month and a half ago. I was a little upset the first couple of times because it deffinately wasn't what I expected. We had great foreplay, but once we got to the sex, it was just non stop rough thrusting until he finished. I figured I wouldn't say anything, but not we've done it a couple more times and it's still the same thing. We don't kiss during sex, we don't hug during sex, its not close at all. I have been wanting to talk to him about it, but for some reason I dont even know how to start. We have great communication and we can talk about literally anything, but for some reason Im nervous about this because I know he thinks rough sex is fun. I was hoping that sex could be passionate and intimate sometimes, not just fun. Do guys not enjoy slower sex? I want to be able to feel like were actually making love, not just having sex for pleasure, and I know he cares deeply for me. I was wondering if anyone that ever had to deal with anything like this could give me some imput, I just need to hear something to give me an idea.