I want to have sex but, I don't want to cheat on my husband. Please mature &...

treasure

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...serious suggestions only? My husband of more than 15yrs has been having a long affair that he hasn't ended even after it became exposed over a year ago. I decided I wouldn't let him touch me sexually since he cheated. I haven't had sex since he was discovered. I'm taking day for day but, lately my sexual desires have been making me weak. I'm horny! The toys are good but, doesn't replace my husband.

What should I do about wanting to have sex with my husband even under this terrible situation? Should I turn to him to fulfill my needs? I don't want to have sex with any other man.
BTW: he has NOT tried. I would be making the 1st move. We live separate while, raising kids together.
 
I cannot believe you are staying with this man and he is still cheating on you and yet you continue to disrespect yourself by staying. Honey get the hell out of there and find a hot young stallion to give you some good loving.
 
well this is complicated but you need to sit your husband down and tell him how you feel and tell him all this. I personally would not stay married to a man that is cheating on me but sounds like you are in the marriage just that he is not.. good luck!!
 
i cant believe ur still putting up with this man!! i would divorcee him if i were youu! hes not worth it.

have sex with some other guy.. dont yearn for him.. hes not worth it
 
Don't go crawling back to man that obviously doesn't want you. I think it only fair to give him what he deserves and go about your own life.
 
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