I wanna just be able to make out with my boyfriend which is the THING that really gets me going. He has hang ups. must brush teeth then kiss, then he doesn't feel like it, too tired, just woke up I feel like he's making excuses. I just don't feel like trying sometime. I rather just handle the situation myself. We really don't have sex I've been with him for about a year and total sex count maybe 7. i'm 22 he's 29 he says its an age thing but i was with a 42yr old and he was good. maybe he stresses about money cause of his job situation. i help were i can and i dunno maybe he cant stop. also he isn't sympathetic really no compassion but he sweet he cooks and cleans for me does computer project with me which is fun. all i really want is good kissing to get into the mood for more i'm just not getting it. i've told him nothings changed. i don't wanna give up after what i put in. what can I do?