i want more than sex from him but i dont no if he wants the same what can i do?

[RACHEL]

hiya, i have known this guy for years and i have always had a soft spot for him, the last few weeks we have become quite close and talk on the phone alot. we have met up a few times and have a good chat and a laugh but we always end up having sex. he has been having problems with his ex girlfriend who split with him after his daughter was born 8months ago and makes comments like 'im never having a girlfriend again in my life' but then when asked if he is going out with me by friends he says 'not quite'. i really like him and want to be with him but i feel he is using me for sex, i cant resist him which makes things harder and i feel so close and wanted by him when we are having sex that i dont no if i will be able to stop having sex with him. i really dont no what to do please help !! thank you