I have a group of really cool friends, two in particular. We like the same music, bands, etc.
The problem is they NEVER WANT TO DO ANYTHING.
Like, go to concerts or go to another city and see a show.
They always give a bunch of excuses like, it's too expensive for them right now, or they're working that day.
The problem is, one of my friends wants to plan everything ahead of time, which is annoying because we can never do anything impromptu.
I ask her all the time and she treats me like a little kid, saying gas is too expensive, etc
So, I always end up going alone. I have a great time but it gets.. well... lonely. But I'm a semi loner and I don't have any way to make new friends really, otherwise I'd go with them.
Yet my friends seem to "go to concerts" with other people. Just not with me. My one friend (the same one who likes to plan and says gas is too expensive) has gone with another friend of hers TWO TIMES. Once to see Broken Social Scene, another time to see The Decemberists. She also paid for the tickets since it was her friends birthday.
I'm just... frustrated. I want to just go out and have a good time with someone :/ Sorry if I sound whiney. I just have no idea what to do. No one is ever interested in doing something with me.
Thanks!
The problem is they NEVER WANT TO DO ANYTHING.
Like, go to concerts or go to another city and see a show.
They always give a bunch of excuses like, it's too expensive for them right now, or they're working that day.
The problem is, one of my friends wants to plan everything ahead of time, which is annoying because we can never do anything impromptu.
I ask her all the time and she treats me like a little kid, saying gas is too expensive, etc
So, I always end up going alone. I have a great time but it gets.. well... lonely. But I'm a semi loner and I don't have any way to make new friends really, otherwise I'd go with them.
Yet my friends seem to "go to concerts" with other people. Just not with me. My one friend (the same one who likes to plan and says gas is too expensive) has gone with another friend of hers TWO TIMES. Once to see Broken Social Scene, another time to see The Decemberists. She also paid for the tickets since it was her friends birthday.
I'm just... frustrated. I want to just go out and have a good time with someone :/ Sorry if I sound whiney. I just have no idea what to do. No one is ever interested in doing something with me.
Thanks!