Cherryblossum
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I;ve been married for 2 years now but we started living together this year b/c we didnt have money to get our own place.I told him to come to my parents house and he didnt agree till this year.Even when we didnt live together,I did not ask him to support me even though he was obligated to.He gave his mom $500 every month and paid other utility bills.FINE.He lived there.But when he moved in with me and our baby,he was suppose to take care of us first.We should have been his first priority.His mom is 49.She saves up money all the time,buys products for her skin and hair,dieting stuff,bought a used car that she doesnt even drive(she doesnt even have a license!),buys expensive sneakers for my husbands little brother,has parties all the time,sends plane tickets to her husband so that he can come see her,sends stuff to her family.NEVER has she gave anything to our daughter.She calls me house all the time demanding money from him.Sometimes the baby doesnt even have milk and my mom has to go out and buy it.YET he gives his mom $300-500 a month.Is this fair?? I need to continue my education.I have an Associated Degree, graduated with honors.Started working on my Bachelors but stopped to take care of the baby and b/c he doesnt have money to help me with my tuition since he's being his mom's slave.He didnt even want to tell her about our marriage and my pregnancy!! I wonder why??She earns more than half of one of his two paychecks.I cannot work b/c my fathers permanent residence application got voided b/c I married the jerk.He hasn't applied for me.But back to the point.And she pretends to play victim...like she loves me and our daughter.She never came to see her.ONLY when his father is in town...WHat do you think of this women?? Wont she and the jerk PAY????