I told my bf that I would like him to be a bit rougher with me during sex. . .?

First off, we're adults. I'm 19 and he's 20. We've been together for over 3 years.

I recently told my boyfriend that I would enjoy it if he could be rougher with me during sex every so often, like throwing me on the bed, ripping my clothes off, holding me down with my arms above my head. . .

He said he would probably never be able to do most of that because he's afraid of hurting me.

Is his response unusual? I thought guys loved stuff like that. . ?
 
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