This guy I met is totally sending me mixed signals, and it's quite frustrating! So our mutual friend introduced us over email, and we were hitting it off pretty well in terms of email conversations -- we were writing back and forth every day for about 2 weeks.
Then we met in person at a party she threw, and we seemed to get along well enough. After that, I invited him to join me and some of my friends to see check out an open mic night at a bar near his place, and we seemed to get along well then also.
After that, he stopped emailing me. I think I sent him 2 or 3 emails, to which he didn't respond at all. I thought, "Ok, so he's not into me." But then a week later, he text messaged me asking me to go to dinner with him when he returns from his vacation. I said I'd like to.
Well he's back from his vacation, and he didn't bother to contact me at all for a week. He never did respond to those emails I sent him about 3 weeks ago. My band was performing, and I invited him to come, and he didn't respond to that either. But then suddenly out of the blue, he text messages me again t ask me to dinner.
Should I even bother to go to dinner with him? I feel like he's pretty much rejected me multiple times, so why should I even bother to meet up with him? Is he just keeping me around as a possible back up, or something? I mean it's seems pretty obvious that he's not really into me. What do you think I should do?
Then we met in person at a party she threw, and we seemed to get along well enough. After that, I invited him to join me and some of my friends to see check out an open mic night at a bar near his place, and we seemed to get along well then also.
After that, he stopped emailing me. I think I sent him 2 or 3 emails, to which he didn't respond at all. I thought, "Ok, so he's not into me." But then a week later, he text messaged me asking me to go to dinner with him when he returns from his vacation. I said I'd like to.
Well he's back from his vacation, and he didn't bother to contact me at all for a week. He never did respond to those emails I sent him about 3 weeks ago. My band was performing, and I invited him to come, and he didn't respond to that either. But then suddenly out of the blue, he text messages me again t ask me to dinner.
Should I even bother to go to dinner with him? I feel like he's pretty much rejected me multiple times, so why should I even bother to meet up with him? Is he just keeping me around as a possible back up, or something? I mean it's seems pretty obvious that he's not really into me. What do you think I should do?