tinkerbell*
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Long story short. I'v been sick for 4 months with stomach problems. I'v been through hell trying to get it diagnosed. But the doctors finally said they think it's infected gallbladder. I see a GI for the first time on Monday (yes it took me that long to get an appointment.) I'm a 14 year old female and I'm out of school on hospital homebound (stupid stupid shiit) with a tutor who comes to get my work and assign some. I have bad bad HORRIBLE days where all I can do is lay on the couch in front of the tv and Internet. My only way to talk to friends (facebook, text) since I'm too sick to see them and my bf moved. Well i'v never really been close to my sisters in that "best friend" way where we understand each others feelings. So when my 3 sisters see me just laying on the couch home from school, they know I feel like shiit but it still just looks like paradise to them. Well my oldest sister who is 17 would always say things to me like back in october such as "wow Kim you're so lucky you have time to watch tv I have so much hw youre so lucky you don't have to go to school ugh" then she acts depressed. And that sister NEVER believed me when i'd say I had something wrong with my stomach. She didn't believe til we got proof. (x-rays, ultrasound of the gallbladder, positive food allergy tests, etc). Well last month she got really sick with vomiting, diarrhea, and fever. Maybe typical stomach flu. She recovered and went back to school that next Friday. Well on Saturday it was a normal day and then at the end of the day she broke down to my mom (she always breaks down) and saying stuff like "when I was sick I felt like you loved me because I was getting all of your attention!" she acts very immature for 17. Never had a relationship, doesn't have or want her lisence. Very babyish. Well recently, If she she's my mom sitting with me, or watching a movie with one of my other sisters, she'll go up to my mom and dramatically say her stomach hurts. Then after my mom talks to her for a couple minutes, my sister will walk away and act FINE!! I'm like wow. And recently, she'll say things like "I think I have an ulcer like kim had."
or "I think I have the same gallbladder disease Kim has.." and she'll say it smiling to my mom or she'll sound happy-concerned. And it's really piasing me off. I think she is faking for attention. She is CLEARLLLLLY not the same as me. Not even CLOSE to as bad! I take Zantac and it helps
my reflux a bit. When she first started complaining, my
mom and I were like "omg you should take Zantac it might help!" (it's over the counter) and my sister started yelling "omg no I'm not going to just TAKE medicene!" but if she was really in distress, she WOULD take it. That's how I am. I hate meds, surgery, but I can't wait to do it just so I feel better! It's really pissing me off because it's like an insult to
me. Like no one understands just how bad I feel (except MAYBE my mom). What do you think? I really want a second opinion.
or "I think I have the same gallbladder disease Kim has.." and she'll say it smiling to my mom or she'll sound happy-concerned. And it's really piasing me off. I think she is faking for attention. She is CLEARLLLLLY not the same as me. Not even CLOSE to as bad! I take Zantac and it helps
my reflux a bit. When she first started complaining, my
mom and I were like "omg you should take Zantac it might help!" (it's over the counter) and my sister started yelling "omg no I'm not going to just TAKE medicene!" but if she was really in distress, she WOULD take it. That's how I am. I hate meds, surgery, but I can't wait to do it just so I feel better! It's really pissing me off because it's like an insult to
me. Like no one understands just how bad I feel (except MAYBE my mom). What do you think? I really want a second opinion.