I have been using the gym for a long time now. Almost 3 years. I am gay. I did date girls in the past, but had a thing for guys more. So here is a story..its very complicated and very long.
Great day made me to go to gym, did some carduo, some weight lifting etc. Saw a guy, thought hmmm very cute! He did look at me and just passed me. Weeks after i went to gym and decided to go to the sauna. so there he was. He was lying on the bench did some stretches and obviously i was checking him out. And i saw that he was looking and checking if i was looking at him. At the end we started talking and he seemed a very nice and friendly guy. he gave me a few compliments about my body and skin color etc. Anyways we kept on talking to eachother for 1 year, without swapping phone numbers etc. And of course i waned to ask his num and take him out. But then he told me he had a gf and i saw them together on the street. That day just upset me so much. So after that i decided that i should just be friends with him, knowing that it would be very hard as i was really in love him that time. Anyway he kept on throwing his compliments about me being fit etc. asking if i was seing anyone. There was on month when he just stoppped coming to gym and when he came i asked him if he was ok, he said oh you care about me do you? thanks thats nice. btw he doesnt know that i am gay. i would come out if he didnt have gf, since he has one there is no reason coming out. So one day we swapped nums. He promised to text me that eve, he never did. Every single time he was seing me at the gym he was saying that he would text me today, but again he never did. Finally he did text me one day. So we kept on texting and calling. Sometimes he would just disapper from gym and would not keep in touch, then he would be back. So all was very weird to me. I i just finally started to move on. Last week he asked me out for a drink. i told him that should be and he asked me to give him my num cos he lost it. So i gave it to him. He called me that day and we had a nice chat. Saying that it was so nice to see me at gym and he cant wait t have a drink with me. And plus he told our whole thing with him is like a fairytale and we just got a chance toarrange to meet up for a drinks. next day i saw him at the gym and he told me i am really looking forward having drinks with you tonite. I was super excited. We met, went to the pub. Bought drinks, coversation wasnt that good. as i didnt know what to say, so did he. He asked me if i dated anyone in the past. i told him i dated a girl . but then what would i say. You can clearly see that guy is damn straight. He checks out girls etc. Why would straight guy give me such comments about me being fit and all this shit. So we ended up having just one drink and prob the last one. Anyways im confused . My friend says that i should just change gyms and forget about him.
So what do you guys think?
Great day made me to go to gym, did some carduo, some weight lifting etc. Saw a guy, thought hmmm very cute! He did look at me and just passed me. Weeks after i went to gym and decided to go to the sauna. so there he was. He was lying on the bench did some stretches and obviously i was checking him out. And i saw that he was looking and checking if i was looking at him. At the end we started talking and he seemed a very nice and friendly guy. he gave me a few compliments about my body and skin color etc. Anyways we kept on talking to eachother for 1 year, without swapping phone numbers etc. And of course i waned to ask his num and take him out. But then he told me he had a gf and i saw them together on the street. That day just upset me so much. So after that i decided that i should just be friends with him, knowing that it would be very hard as i was really in love him that time. Anyway he kept on throwing his compliments about me being fit etc. asking if i was seing anyone. There was on month when he just stoppped coming to gym and when he came i asked him if he was ok, he said oh you care about me do you? thanks thats nice. btw he doesnt know that i am gay. i would come out if he didnt have gf, since he has one there is no reason coming out. So one day we swapped nums. He promised to text me that eve, he never did. Every single time he was seing me at the gym he was saying that he would text me today, but again he never did. Finally he did text me one day. So we kept on texting and calling. Sometimes he would just disapper from gym and would not keep in touch, then he would be back. So all was very weird to me. I i just finally started to move on. Last week he asked me out for a drink. i told him that should be and he asked me to give him my num cos he lost it. So i gave it to him. He called me that day and we had a nice chat. Saying that it was so nice to see me at gym and he cant wait t have a drink with me. And plus he told our whole thing with him is like a fairytale and we just got a chance toarrange to meet up for a drinks. next day i saw him at the gym and he told me i am really looking forward having drinks with you tonite. I was super excited. We met, went to the pub. Bought drinks, coversation wasnt that good. as i didnt know what to say, so did he. He asked me if i dated anyone in the past. i told him i dated a girl . but then what would i say. You can clearly see that guy is damn straight. He checks out girls etc. Why would straight guy give me such comments about me being fit and all this shit. So we ended up having just one drink and prob the last one. Anyways im confused . My friend says that i should just change gyms and forget about him.
So what do you guys think?