I think i made a HUGE MISTAKE ABOUT SEX.....?

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im a 17 year old junior and when i was 15 (sophomore) i had sex with a 15 year old guy (freshman) and i got pregnant and had identical twin baby girls who are now 17 months old. there names are
Charlotte Victoria (Charlie)
and
Addison Grace (Addie).
and they are the love of my life and they are so adorable!
but when i go out with them places, like to the grocery store, the mall, resaurantes etc. people stare at me and make rude comments out loud so that i can hear them such as "look at that young mother, thats so sad, those poor children." and "someone got around at a young age." and those comments are starting to kill me. I AM A GOOD MOTHER AND I LOVE MY GIRLS. why do people make rude remarks like that??
 
Because they are cruel and they fail to understand the decision you made to take responsibilty for your actions. GOOD FOR YOU!! i applaud you in your efforts to be a good mom at such a young age! TWINS?? my god i dont know how you did it!

I became pregnant at 16. I was going for a walk with both my children (I had another 2 years later, PLANNED!) and there was this much older woman with her much older daughter walking too. It was a circular path, so we walked by each other once and then again before the end of our walk. they stopped me and said, "Are you the babysitter or the mother?" in my head i was like, HOW RUDE! but i was proud. Because i am a surviving teen mom and i am a damn good mom and proud of it!

You can just smile politely at those people and be happy knowing that you wont even be 40 by the time your girls graduate and you will still be hott and gorgeous while they are old and wrinkly.

Dont let it get to you. They dont understand the hardships of being such a young mom. They are ignorant and their ignorance is not worth making you feel bad. Keep your chin up. Be proud of who you are and teach your daughters the dignity they will need as women too.
 
if you think youre a good mother and if oy uthink you will be able to take care of them then dont care wut anyone says!!
love your girls and dont think about anyone else and their rude comments
 
the people who make rude and stupid comments are only small and pathetic. its hard but ignore them. by giving them attention you are only doing what they want. attention. but if it makes you feel better snap back at those bitches and tell them "I bet i'm a better mother then your old ass." or something. but just walk off after saying that.


people are stupid and intolerant. be the bigger person.

good luck!
 
Sorry they judge you like that.

But as long as you are doing all you can to be the best mom to those girls, they have not right to judge. You could have been like some cowardly teens and throw the babies in the dumpster. Live and learn.
 
well just because youre a good mom doesnt mean that those things arent true. but ppl still are being extremly rude and they have no right to judge you, especially since they dont know you. for all they know, you could have been raped but youre pro-life so you decided to give birth and you just never put them up for adoption. if i were you i would just ignore it because they are just being rude and just trying to make you feel bad
 
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