i recently got married ad i am having troubble with keeping up with my in laws?

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my mother in law some how think that i have stolen her son i donno how to make her see other wise plus its had for me to comunicate with her as she doesnt wana tak to me and i am not allowed at her place. This whole thing with motherin law is creating troubble in my marride life as my husband is very close to her and hence we end up fighting.
 
haha.. welcome to marriage! :) Sorry.. I know it's frustrating. But, now you know what so many people complain about when they use the term Monster In Law.. :) I was lucky to have one that I actually liked! I think though if you aren't allowed at your Mother in Law's home, your husband needs to put on his big boy pants and tell mom it's a package deal now.. you are his wife, he should stand up to Momma for you!
 
Don't get involved. It is up to your husband to take care of this problem. HE should talk to his parents. HE should protect you from them. HE should manage the trouble. If you get involved, it is just going to cause more tension. If your husband does NOT do anything, talk to him about it and see to it that he does. If you have to, drag him off to marriage counseling so that he can understand that you come first, not his family. If you don't, I can guarantee that you'll be calling an attorney within a couple of years.

Good luck!
 
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